i slept w/ this guy. then he disappeared.said he lost his phone. then seen him at a hangout spot and he tried to talk 2 my friend. he finally reconized me. she went behind my back to call hime. then tried to make herself feel better saying atleast she was woman enough to come and tell me. she hung w/ him one night and now they like each other. i still have some feelings for him and i don't know what to do. i know she was wrong but she keeps trying to make me feel bad for trying to keep her from being happy.
2006-08-15 09:11:36 · 14 answers · asked by shorty26 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she knows how this guy treated you and she's still going after
him,she's not much of a friend-not to mention stupid. There's not
much you can do,let them be for now. Chances are he'll do the same thing to her sooner or later. When he does,I wouldn't waste
a lot of sympathy on her although she may come looking for a shoulder to cry on.
Real friends show loyalty to each other. That applies to both genders.
2006-08-15 09:21:19 · answer #1 · answered by Alion 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, the guy treated you like crap. Yeah, your friend went behind your back and talked to him. Frankly I think they deserve each other, don't you. Look, don't find fault with the situation just because the guy chooses to be with her now and not you by blaming it all on her. Its his decision in the end. My advise, stop spending so much time on thinking on how to deal with them. Move on and forget them. Its obvious your friend is not your friend by a half shot. Friends don't do stuff like that to each other. Frankly ignore whatever she has to say, she'll get the picture eventually and back off trying to make you feel jealous. As for the guy, you're better off without him. You deserve better.
2006-08-15 09:25:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I was in the same situaton with a friend and what i did was i told my friend that i still liked him. You should just tell her that you have feelings for him, if she is a true friend she will wait till you are over him.
2006-08-15 09:19:09 · answer #3 · answered by sarah m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same happened to me. I had to face the fact that he didnt want to be with me anymore and so do you. If he makes your friend happy, then let it go....but warn your friend about what he has done to you so she has all the info on what could also happen to her as well.
2006-08-15 09:18:32 · answer #4 · answered by angelkiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you answered your own question "they like eachother" so let them be. and obviously he didn't lose his phone if he's calling your friend you were just a one night stand so get over it. as for your friend if she knew that you had slept with him and still started talking to him than she's not a real friend. forget about him and forget about her!
2006-08-15 09:18:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that's not a friend you need to have just forget her and him when he does the same thing to her then she'll rememebr he's your friend real #1 in a friendship never go out with your bestfriend ex
2006-08-15 09:18:06 · answer #6 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it be obvious he wasn't interested in you maybe him and your friend may have something special. Try to move on
2006-08-15 09:21:09 · answer #7 · answered by not_your_average*chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a decision between you and the guy if you two date. Ditto for your friend and the guy.
If you want to date the guy, pursue it. If not, don't.
It's ultimately his decision who he wants to date.
2006-08-15 09:17:27 · answer #8 · answered by Tony T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'M SO SORRY TO HEAR THIS....ANYWAYS DEAR....you dont deserved this guy...i mean after he had sex with you. he disappeared. what???
about this girl....i bet you this guy just using her for something...trust me one day she'll be crying coz of this guy.
move on...YOU DESERVED BETTER....and if you could CUT CONTACT WITH THIS GIRL ALSO....GOOD LUCK
2006-08-15 09:20:01 · answer #9 · answered by angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
distance yourself from the both of them. they're jerks. don't waste your time. be the better person. move on.
2006-08-15 09:18:18 · answer #10 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋