How do you think a fat girl like me could get a bf when all they see is the outside??

Answer 1

Hey, don't think that all guys want to get with the skinny chicks!! Heaps of guys dig the curves, today I saw the biggest hottie with this huge chick, I'm telling you , either lose the weight if it's really weighing you down, or get confident and you'll see, there are a ton of guys that love it. "I like big butts and I canna lie, you other fellas can't deny..."

Answer 2

OK First off you're probably not fat. Second, my girlfriend thought she was fat for the longest time, thought I deserved better than her, and all kinds of ****. You just have to believe in yourself and stay strong until you find a guy that will look past what you call "fat" and see your inner beauty. Another problem with girls is that they are really self conscious. If their hair isn't absolutely perfect, the world goes wrong. Come on, give yourself a break. There's plenty of fish in the sea. You just need to give yourself a chance. Hopefully this helps you some, considering I was in the same situation, only I am a guy that was looking for a girl before I met the little lady of my dreams. Like I said, give it time. You'll be glad you did. And don't resort to having sex just to make friends either. It's not good for you.

Answer 3

Big girlies are the best (coming from one) because there's more to love! Besides, it isn't true that all guys only see the outside. Take a look at the question I asked the other day (and advice would be welcomed!). A lot of guys get turned on by bigger girls because skinny ones are too fragile. That's what a survey said. We had to do it for my social psychology class last year and it's true that just as many guys like heavier girls. So strut your stuff! You hot and you know it!
~Mel~

Answer 4

I guess it depends on how fat you are. Yes, I imagine a diet would help, but if you try some other things first, you might not have to wait that long. Are you pretty? Do your hair, wear makeup, shower and put on perfume. Do you have a good personality? Be friendly, smile often, and maintain eye contact when talking to people. If you have confidence, you exude confidence, and people will want to be your friend, and then it is only a matter of time after that.

Answer 5

As a formerly boyfriendless fat girl, it took me a long time to realize my value as a person in a culture that teaches you that thin is the only kind of attractive. There are many people that will love you for your authentic self if you believe you are worthy of love. Work on discovering the wonders of who you are, body and soul, and the right person will come to you. Live your life so that you are happy, and do not worry about other people's opinions. Even supermodels have their critics.

Answer 6

I love a fat girl! Hit me up next time I'm 3 sheets to the wind!

Answer 7

first of all there are alot of guys out there and not all guys look for whats on the outside, some guys actually look for the inner of a girl. Be yourself and eventually someone will see you and love you for who you truly are, instead of someone who only sees through there eyes and not there heart,,

Answer 8

There is someone for you honey. All men aren't into thin chicks or medium chicks. Just wait your time out be patient, never let them see you sweat. Your bf is around he will find you, continue to love yourself. Much love.

Answer 9

some guys are into plus size women and they could potentially be interested in you.....just try to exude alot of confidence and swagger like the girls who are smaller than you....dont walk around with your head in your chest otherwise no one will notice you...honestly i dont mind plus size girls as long as they have a pretty good personality, have some type of goals, and have a cute face.

Answer 10

Have some self-respect and lose some damn weight. No matter what you've heard, it's not a good idea to be overweight. For health reasons. Self-esteem issues. ect.

Put the junk food away and get on a damn diet and put some cardio in your life and stop being a couch potato.