She is 2 years and 9 months older than me and I hate her a lot!
2006-08-15 09:04:17 · 14 answers · asked by Samantha Jo 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
we are not in our early teens
2006-08-15 09:13:25 · update #1
I had so much trouble with my family, I don't even talk to them anymore, and they have no Idea where I'm at...I have been in peace for the past 4 years because I am no longer part of the fighting that goes on^_^.
2006-08-15 09:10:53 · answer #1 · answered by ralahinn1 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just hate what she is doing to you and not really her. If you think you hate her as a person, look finding out for the root cause. Does she get more attention at home from anybody important for your attention too? Does she asserts her privelege because she is older? Is the rivalry too strong between you?
Did you talk to your parents about it? Do you think they should get involve?
How about some bonding activities for the two of you only? Can you forgive her or have you asked forgiveness? I am sure there could be the same unresolve reasons for the hatred. I don't want to say it is wrong to hate but the consequences of it may cause it to be wrong.
2006-08-15 16:20:29 · answer #2 · answered by Rallie Florencio C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your age, if you are still very young then it is completely normal but as you mature and get older the relationship should get better past being teenagers. I had a brother that died, so I would try to get along my sibling as much as possible. Sometimes personalities clash maybe you can find some common ground in something that both of you like to do. Good luck.
2006-08-15 16:13:27 · answer #3 · answered by Esoteric 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to take a guess that you guys are quite young, probably early teens. My younger brother and I are 2 years, 10 months apart. Until we reached our mid 20s...we venomously hated each other! Now...we get along fabulously (helps that our older two brothers have turned into complete morons).
2006-08-15 16:10:45 · answer #4 · answered by Sunidaze 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it's wrong to hate her. why? because she irritates you or she tells you the truth. Sister is the best thing in the world. She supports you when you are having a hard time. She comforts you when you are down. She might not done much for you now, have you given her the supports she needs? Be nice and kind to her. May be she will be different to you. in order for other to treat you good, you must treat others nicely first. Good Luck
2006-08-15 17:38:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really i hate both of my sister and 1 is 10 years younger then me and the other is 1 1/2 years older then me. it is just a sibling thing
2006-08-15 16:11:51 · answer #6 · answered by hotteenmale17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, its wrong. A sister is a wonderful thing to have in life. Dont let stupid things get in the way of a great relationship for the both of you as you get older.
2006-08-15 16:09:36 · answer #7 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You might say you hate her but in your heart, you really love her. You probably say you hate her because she did something that you didn't like to you or something like that but i really think that you still love her. There are times you could say that I hate my own sister, who is younger then me but i don't hate her, i dislike her but i still love her. You also might "hate" her because she might get more attention then you which is normal.
2006-08-15 16:11:51 · answer #8 · answered by lint 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sibling rivalry is natural
2006-08-15 16:18:12 · answer #9 · answered by cbatb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course not
totaly normal
2006-08-15 16:09:11 · answer #10 · answered by beanscout 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋