2006-08-15 09:03:18 · 12 answers · asked by Miss C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, You are just seeing who you like and if you are compatiable with any of them.
Is it me; or do you guys notice that the hot blondes don't have a problem will dating several guys.
2006-08-15 09:11:11 · answer #1 · answered by kitty cat 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I believe dating is a serious matter.. people can get really hurt because people can be having expectations.
You shouldn't be leading people on. I think it is very wrong to date 4 at the same time, unless your dates know about it.. which would be weird, but at least you wouldn't be starting out your relationship with lies and cheating.. yes, I think it is cheating if you are dating others without their knowledge.. especially if these guys like you and are trying hard to win your heart. It definitely is wrong if you accept gifts or take advantage of them otherwise, which you would be doing if they give you things or are doing you favors or otherwise are trying hard to win your heart..
I'm not sure if it makes you a **** if you are NOT sleeping with them (but even kissing them on the lips is intimate enough in my eyes to make you a ho, if your 'licking' other guys too), but I sure as hell find it quite disgusting if you are dating others without their knowledge.
I think you should give a definition of 'dating' because not everyone has the same definition for it.. some just hang out as friends, others are seriously out to find 'the one', some kiss, some believe sex is part of dating too..
I believe that if you are serious with somebody (seriously dating), it means you are really trying to see if things can work out.. if that is the case, you should be dedicating all your attention and effort to that one.. so that you can give yourself and this other person a serious chance, and not let it be interfered (let alone introduce some kind of competition) with others. As long as you date this person, you should be giving him your undivided attention.
If you decide you don't like this person, STOP dating that person BEFORE you move on to the next one, otherwise, you will be EXTREMELY cheap in my eyes.. I mean, those people you are dating have feelings too.. they're not just toys you can all try and pick and choose.. because that would be an unfair and unequal position you're in, unless they too are dating others at the same time, and everyone knows about the other one dating others.. but I just think this is disrespectful and cheap!
2006-08-15 16:16:13 · answer #2 · answered by reageer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating is not the same as having a committed relationship. In a committed relationship, it's only you and one other person. You have found somebody to share your life with. When you are dating, you are exploring your options. You are free to date lots of people. What makes you a slut is if you're having sex with all of them!
2006-08-15 16:13:46 · answer #3 · answered by wildchild69_1971 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course not! Dating is how you find out if you want him to be more than a date. Don't let people judge you or label you. Your single and having fun! Dating is what single people do. If you were telling each of them that they are the only guy...well that's another issue. But I dont believe that's the case or you wouldnt even be concerned with this question. Date as many men as you want. As long as your honest and they are mature enough to handle a real woman....have fun honey!!
2006-08-15 16:12:34 · answer #4 · answered by Joeygirl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. But if they don't know about each other, then you are a liar.
In my book, being a slut is cool. Being a liar is definitely NOT cool.
2006-08-17 06:07:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
can't u date five guys i want to become the fifth one
2006-08-15 16:11:14 · answer #6 · answered by arun_themask 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you are one if you are doing 4 guys at the same time
2006-08-15 16:08:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
dating is one thing having sex with them is another thing!!dating and only dating no. if sex yes a slut and tramp whore.
2006-08-15 16:09:22 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
thats really not good. youre hurting people. and theyll think ur easy.
2006-08-15 16:43:02 · answer #9 · answered by tovahh. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yep. That, and loose. : )
2006-08-15 16:10:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋