I think I'm commitment phobic.
2006-08-15 08:57:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
No, honey it's just your nerves. There is probably something that scares you about making a commitment and it's just your body's way of reacting to the stress.
2006-08-15 09:03:50 · answer #1 · answered by ~MissM~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're probably just nervous. Getting married is a big deal. You're going to (or supposed to at least) spend the rest of your life with this man. It's a serious decision and you obviously realize that or you wouldn't be nervous. Make the right decision. If you think he is a good man and will treat you right and will help you raise and support a family, then go for it!
There aren't many good ones left out there anymore, so grab him up and marry him if you think he's the one!
Good luck! Don't be nervous! Be excited (like me)! :)
2006-08-15 16:22:26 · answer #2 · answered by ☼ lovethesun11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were probably just nervous, do you want to marry this man? If so, then it definatly was nerves. And maybe a little too much excitment.I'm getting married in december and even though I didn't throw up, it's all a little overwhelming planning a wedding. Keep it fun though, if he loves you enough to ask you to marry him, then he'll get over the fact that you threw up, i'm sure he understands.
2006-08-15 16:12:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is a sign that you should think through the commitment idea before saying yes. Maybe this isn't the right guy for you or maybe its just the idea of marrage that scares you.
Figure out what you want and go through with it. Don't let him pressure you if you need more time to think about it.
2006-08-15 16:07:34 · answer #4 · answered by bluechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just got nervous. Do you love him enough to spend the rest of your life with him? If not, let him go.
2006-08-15 16:04:01 · answer #5 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still want to throw up thinking about it now, something is definetly wrong- as in you are not ready
2006-08-15 16:05:27 · answer #6 · answered by Phoenixsong 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh no! Its just the excitment!! Lol. Congrats!! Nothing is wrong with u k? U were just shocked!
2006-08-15 19:26:28 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were just nervous, and probably weren't ready for what was going to happen.
2006-08-15 17:31:31 · answer #8 · answered by ♥BlackBarbie™♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you were probably just scared and totally didnt expect it. he did a good job of surprising you, id say. some people cry, some puke. its normal
2006-08-16 02:20:47 · answer #9 · answered by married1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nerves? or worse??? Maybe he should stand clear!
2006-08-15 16:09:46 · answer #10 · answered by yvonne p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋