my 3yr old is extrememly extroverted. I mean she will run across a crowded store to speak to total strangers. I can't seem to get it through to her without losing her personality that she can't do that.
Does anybody have any ideas how I could get her to understand without scaring her, or completely curbing her personality?
2006-08-15 08:57:21 · 7 answers · asked by Chrissy 7 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
Just keep teaching her, like you are doing. Gradually she'll grasp what you are saying to her. Until then keep a good eye on her. But don't push or scare her into anything. I think that will make it worse. Especially when she has a great, outgoing personality. You never want to damage that.
2006-08-15 09:26:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that not everyone in the world is trusting and good people! I would tell my kids that their are bad people out there, that want to hurt little kids, and then its too late once they do get you. Tell them you never except money or gifts ever because its how they get a hold of you, and then there is nothing that they can do to stop the bad people. I use to tell my kids, that if they ever see anyone approaching them, to scream real loud, and run to the nearest house that they can, or to a police officer, or to tell any adult that they can that someone is after them and they need help! My oldest daughter use to have such a loud pitch scream and cry when she got upset, I would say that was her best defense, if anyone ever approached her, because I couldn't even stand to listen to her screaming!! Hope this helps!
2006-08-15 16:29:54 · answer #2 · answered by autumn wolf 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tranquilizers
duct tape
shock collar
haha im joking of course..
I think the reminding her everytime she does it that one day it could be a mean person and strangers are bad until mommy says they are ok..She is very outgoing..I was told I was like that as a child too, just keep an eye on her and make sure she doesnt get into trouble until she can realize why she shouldnt talk to strangers??
2006-08-15 23:20:43 · answer #3 · answered by aoinerekai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you need to scare her a little. Tell her about the "bad man" and someone could take her. I tell my children they can talk to the stranger if I"m with them, and I talk to them too. (like a cashier, or some other stanger that says hi for a minute, and we pass on- because you don't want them to be rude. If I don't say hello, or I'm not with them- (for some strage reason) I tell them to not talk to them, and just walk home.
2006-08-15 16:44:35 · answer #4 · answered by Miss America 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1) Put red dots on her face.
2) Hang a sign on her that says "Both of my parents have AIDS"
3) My father just got out of prison for murdering the last guy who messed around with me.
4) My Mother is crazy and she is armed.
2006-08-15 16:02:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
#1 Tell them a story
#2 Explain
#3 Make a goal and punishment just in case if they disobeyed your saying!
Tell them a story like Lon Po Po.
2006-08-15 16:03:32 · answer #6 · answered by Sk8erboi83 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
use electroshock aversion
2006-08-15 16:03:07 · answer #7 · answered by el.tuco 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋