So I am a virgin...by choice...I dont really believe in waiting until marriage, but I do believe in waiting for the right peson... I sometimes have trouble saying no to girls...cause the temptaion is pretty strong...but i know that none of these girls are the one...what can i do to tell them nicely? How can I keep from givng in?
2006-08-15 08:56:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
growing_list... YOU are SO inspirational...thank you so much. What building would u recommend?...lol...idiot
2006-08-15 09:05:32 · update #1
When you're together and find that the situation is leading to possible intimacy. Divert the situation by letting the date know how you feel. This should help and cool the situation to help avoid letting it get out of control and cause you to lose your control. If you already know that these girls are not who you are looking for, don't get into a situation that conducive to losing your virginity.
2006-08-15 09:06:40 · answer #1 · answered by Genny2ster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand, and I respect your decision. But maybe you are rushing to soon, if you are sure that these girls are not for you then just tell them nicely that even thought they are very attractive, and any guy would be lucky to be with them, you just don't feel any chemistry with them. It will be a little hard but the sooner they know the better, and besides ignoring or refusing them is much more cruel(because you leave them hoping and waisting their time). Good Luck.
2006-08-15 16:23:05 · answer #2 · answered by Faust 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be strong and tell them no.
I did sort of the same thing but after a divorce. Yes - many temptations -but a one nighter with someone doesn't make you feel good about yourself. Not like waiting for the right person.
I'm proud of you and keep it up!
2006-08-15 16:02:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
anyone who willingly wants to stay a virgin should find a nice tall building and jump
2006-08-15 16:03:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with being honest....let them know you are waiting for someone special, you wont be hurting their feelings if your not sleeping with then and then leaving them.
2006-08-15 16:02:49 · answer #5 · answered by marisanj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say no. It goes both ways.
2006-08-15 16:01:52 · answer #6 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell them your not into that
2006-08-15 16:07:37 · answer #7 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with me.
2006-08-15 16:08:30 · answer #8 · answered by night lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't
2006-08-15 16:01:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋