am I too spoiled and self centered?

Question

When im dating a guy he has 2 do everything I say, or I pout and cry, and if I feel he isnt paying 100% attention 2 me he gets the silent treatment and I make personal insults against him, and he has 2 buy me something at least a couple times a week, nothing cheap either, and I think im sooooooooo much better than every1, the only person better than me is God.

Im not jokin people in proud 2 b this way, mesofemme im a virgo.

Answer 1

Get a copy of the Loving Dominant you are defiantly a Domme personality, and probably damn high maintenance, too. Sweet Cheeks, you need to grow up and find out what love really is.

Answer 2

When I'm dating a girl, I usually do everything she says and I'm always sweet to her and we never fight. I however refuse to buy her anything that she choses. The things I buy for her are gifts. That means I chose what I buy her. I may buy her something every day, or I may buy her nothing for a year. Buying something for someone that they have chosen is the same as giving money. I will never give someone money as a present. As for thinking you are so much better than everyone else, I think the world revolves around me. Nothing wrong with that.

There are some things I would refuse you. Those things I do refuse, I will never give, so the whole pouting and crying will be a waste of your time and energy.

My opinion of you is that rather than spoiled or self centered, you are just stupid. You'd be willing to throw away a great relationship because of some petty trifle. I hope you change. For your sake.

Answer 3

Um your kidding right. You have a pretty good understanding of who you are. But you know that right? You also know you are not a nice person. Your parents went dreadfully wrong with you. You have the mentality of a 5 yr old. Kids grow out of the "center of the universe" thing before 10. You must have missed that step. If you keep up the attitude you will be very lonely.
I suggest you tell your parents that you need then to spend more time with you because you are on Yahoo looking for negative reinforcement from strangers.

Answer 4

That depends on what you want out of life. If you want to end up isolating the human population and living a lonely life, then you are perfect!

It sounds like you are just patterning your behavior after your mother. I would wager a bet she is divorced and alone. Your dad probably felt guilty about the divorce and showered you with "things." You in turn were greedy and ungrateful, furthering your dad's abuse.

Feelings of entitlement are not rare in this modern age of parent absenteeism. I hope you get better before you enter the work world. Because I can't see you holding down a job for long.

Answer 5

Wow i really hope this is a big joke, if not well i feel bad for the guy you've got wrapped around your Bi***y finger! Grow up and realize the the whole world does not revolve around your spoiled A**. I would tell this guy to run while he has a chance!

Answer 6

Spoiled

Answer 7

well perhaps you are expecting a bit too much. sometimes people have other things to do or other problems to think through. try walking a mile or 2 in my shoes. As far as personal insults, those are going to get you nowhere fast. A guy might love you, but you verbally abuse him he'll drop you fast.

Answer 8

If you continue like this you will be very unliked and very lonely. No guy that's worth having would put up with that kind of treatment for long. Everybody needs mutual respect. Would you stay with a guy who did this to you ?

Answer 9

If you want a good and rewarding relationship you have to think about the other persons needs first. Going about it in the way your suggesting will only have men thinking of you as a *****.

Answer 10

Are you serious?! You are totally self centered and spoiled. If you stay this way you are going to lead a very lonely life.