Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met in person??

Question

Now dont think i'm wierd ok. But about a year and a half ago i worked nights as a receptionist and it use to get really boring. So i would go on the internet and chat to people and one night started chattin with this awsome guy and to this day i still am talkin to him. We've never met, we live some odd states away from eachother but we call eachother almost everyday. So am i wierdo or is it really possible??

Answer 1

sure, why not?

Answer 2

I'd say it's very possible.

If the chat's been good, (and it's lasted this long,) you've got a shot at a real relationship.

I've never done it successfully, but I'm still willing to believe that it's a possibility. I chatted with a woman for a while and we decided to meet; funny thing though, she didn't strike me in person the way I thought she would. Perhaps a little more time together and things might have been different. (We only had a week.) Yes, we did have sex and it was good, but I didn't feel comfortable with a lot of little things about her physical manor, i.e., the way she stood and walked, etc.. I guess I found out that physical attraction is more complex than just seeing a pretty face on a web cam...

For what it's worth. Good luck.

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Answer 3

You are not weird. It is great that you have met someone online that you can relate to. In my opinion, it isnt romantic love though. There are basically 3 parts to love - emotional connection (i imagine you have this), commitment (how much time and effort spent on each other), and then physical chemistry. The last one is a requirement for love. I'm not saying that its impossible for that to develop - in fact its very very likely that you will in fact have that physical chemistry since you already have the other stuff. The feelings you feel are definitely the first stages of love but if you want it to develop you would have to get together with him in person.

PS I dont know how long you have been talking to him, but Watch out for sexual predators. Always take a friend with you when you first meet someone. Just in case.

Answer 4

Well..I think its possible to fall in love without meeting a person but most of the time when you actually meet him/her I can't say the feeling are always the same..Sometimes some people sounds really nice on the phone but they are way different in appearance..

Once I was trying to reach someone and every-time I was talking to this receptionist to get an appointment.He sounded really cool and we started the conversation more at personal level.One time I decided to meet him..I was shocked..The guy I was expecting -Handsome in his early twenties and smart..The guy I met-44 yrs ugly and married with two kids..Well it was a good lesson for me and hope you learn some thing from it too..

Answer 5

You are NOT weird at all and you should stop thinking that. It is very possible, and if you want my opinion, I think it's the best way to fall in love. This takes away from the lust of things. You 2 have fallen in love for the conversation, for what's on the inside, with the mental capacity and that's what's most important. Nowadays, people tend to judge love based off of what takes place in the bedroom. Which, in my opinion, is at the bottom of the totem pole. What counts the most is how people connect mentally..Do you understand my thoughts, views, opinion, and my way of thinking?? Do I make you laugh, does my conversation intrigue you? Do I keep you wanting more mentally?? All this is what counts the most and if your answer toall those question is yes...Then go for it!

Answer 6

My fiance and I met in a chat room 5 1/2 years ago. We are getting married in Oct. We met in person within the first several months, but I gave up everything at home and just knew I wanted to be with her. I moved from MA to WI on a feeling. It can work. Good luck!

Answer 7

Maybe you should meet in person so you can actually get to know the "real" him before thinking about love. No matter how well you think you know this guy the chance that he is not being himself 100% of the time is a high one. People tend to be more at ease with themselfs when its in the privacy of their own home rather than out in the real world face to face.

Answer 8

No Nikki ur not a wierd i had the same experience as u, i liked a guy very much i met him in a chat room .But my opinion is to be carefull and u will have some day the chance to meet him do it but be carefull

Answer 9

internet is a great way to meet people. it's also a great way to lie. you may feel a connection, but be careful and take your time. don't jump to any decisions without first meeting in a public area. make sure he's not married. a lot of guys on the internet are just looking for an easy lay.

hope it's all true and wonderful for you. just be careful.

Answer 10

Not at all - you're getting to to know, from what it sounds like, a great guy. Honestly I think you're doing things right. You can be in love with a person without ever meeting them, you still KNOW him through all the time spent talking. I think you two should try to meet and see how it goes in person. From the sounds of it, you have a winner! Good luck!

Answer 11

it is possible, you are emotionally attached to this guy. You are getting to know his true self, his personality, and not being hindered by the physical attraction. I totally beleive that people can fall in love on-line, thru letters, or on the phone. The reason, when U are in person, a person puts up walls to block other people around them to hurt them emotionally. When you are not face to face, you are not afraid of rejection and your guard is down, and your true self comes out. I wish U all the luck in the world.

Good luck!