I mean guys at a young age are only interested in sex and not really emotionally mature while girls are emotionally mature enough and are looking for true love, life partner..ect. Why did God do that?
2006-08-15 07:56:25 · 26 answers · asked by K 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
You were made in God's image, he gave you a brain, you make the choices,,,,, use your brain,,,, boys sometimes use other parts to do their thinking,,, that's why girls are to be smart and use their brain. God doesn't make you do anything,,, it's your choice.
2006-08-15 08:07:50 · answer #1 · answered by avery 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone agrees - humans are imperfect. God gives us free will.
Many people believe women fully mature in the late 20s but men fully mature in their late 30s. Some are almost grandfathers by then!
I remember being a young guy and not being able to relate to the girls correctly. If you are over 18, try a guy a coulple of years older.
Good luck.
2006-08-15 15:17:25 · answer #2 · answered by American citizen and taxpayer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know of many young girl (teens) that's emotionally ready or mature enough for marriage or any other long term commitment to one guy.
I know many who have gotten pregnant and pressured their parents to consent for them to marry at 16..... the marriage failed before the first anniversary....
I only know of only one girl who married at 14 and is still married to this day....she's in her early thirties now.
The vast majority of young teens who I know and heard them say how mature they are .... are only kidding themselves and playing at being grow up. One needs experience in life/relationships to gain maturity/responsibility..... trial and error and learning from mistakes. So when I hear a 15 or 16 year old tell me how mature and responsible she is ... I just watch her and most every time her maturity is only a facade.
There are many (teen)guys around who don't act like jerks and they aren't sex crazy either... most girls I have observed go for the bad boy and try to make him into a good guy --- she's more attracted by his good looks, charm, the car he drives ; and his adventurous/risky nature and his smooth talk.... I have studied the teens who live around my area and I see this happen a lot... the nice boy is overlooked because he is considered a nerd because he studies, has manners, doesn't follow the in-crowds behavior or style of fashion.
2006-08-15 15:22:24 · answer #3 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately we live a in a society were sex is being exploited at every media possible. Who is it targeting? Well seeing that most commercials,movies, videos, magazines, consist of many women,dressing provocatively, exposing most of their body parts. Who do you think it's gonna effect the most? Teenage boys & Men. It is a fact certain TV stations show an illicit scene every 3 seconds. Now thats certainly an enormous amount of sexual content to take in to one's mind on a daily basis. They are being bombarded with the stuff. Not to mention the continous sexual conversation one may intake in their everyday life. This saying is true and applies to seeing and hearing as well; "You are what you eat." So if a person is ingesting a lot sexual content, than more than likely that will be what they continously think about. So to answer your question. God did not make us like that. But God did make women pleasing to men for the sole purpose of establishing a purposeful relationhip that results in marriage.
2006-08-15 15:35:39 · answer #4 · answered by gwani3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are making the fatal mistake of generalization. All guys are not sex-maniacs, and all girls are not mature while young. God loves variety, so keep your eyes open.
2006-08-15 15:02:10 · answer #5 · answered by Sanjeeb M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think G-d made people this way. He gave us perfect souls and perfect bodies. The search for sex at a young age is the product of our reproductive instinct and the product of the society we live in...but it is up to each one of us to make the choice between good and evil.
2006-08-15 15:10:40 · answer #6 · answered by Noi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wasn't god, it is society telling us how we are supposed to behave. I guy who isn't just trying to "get laid" if you excuse the expression is put down and a girl that just sleeps with a guy is called a whore.
When I was young I always thought there was something wrong with me because I didn't just want to hop into the sack with anybody, but actually wanted a relationship
2006-08-15 15:04:23 · answer #7 · answered by bregweidd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
god didn't do that, there is no god, the male species for centuries has only focused on procreation. This is a trait that will not change, stop looking for someone to blame. it won't help.
2006-08-15 15:03:36 · answer #8 · answered by sisy j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God gave us a brain to choose who we are and how we act. People on the other hand do what they want. I blame the parents. They need to raise their children right.
2006-08-15 15:07:20 · answer #9 · answered by Ruby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God didn't do it, nature did. The young men want to spread their seed, and the girls want to trap one of them to help raise the family.
2006-08-15 15:01:58 · answer #10 · answered by qamberq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋