I have to admit I still love my ex. I know he still loves me ( he said so) he says he needs time because our relationship ended really bad. I know he isn't with anyone, but I got tired of him calling saying he loves me but not wanting to fix us. SO I told him not to call until he was ready. Its been a week. I miss him so. What can I do? I don't want to call and make it worse, but I need to make him see that "us" is still possible!!
2006-08-15 07:28:12 · 7 answers · asked by verybadfaya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have to say you may have really messed up by telling him not to call until he was ready. It seems like the both of you are still in love and that's great if you want to get back together someday. But you should really listen to him when he says he still needs time. It may just mean that he needs to get his emotions together before getting back into a serious relationship with you. Call him to talk but try not to mention getting back together, just talk as friends. This may help him to get comfortable with you again, and trusting you again (assuming you were the reason for the tough break up). When he's ready he will let you know, and when he does you can ask him how he feels, what his thought process is about your relationship and what you guys are going through. The key is being open and honest about your feelings when the time comes to express them. I hope this helps.
2006-08-15 07:42:58 · answer #1 · answered by tweetybird3083 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give it time. If he admitted that he still loves you, that's a good sign. I don't think you did the wrong thing in telling him not to call until he was ready. I would leave the ball in his court. I know you miss him but let him make the move this way you will know if he really loves you and seriously wants to get back together with you. If an unreasonable amount of time goes by and he doesn't respond then I would say move on. Don't wait forever for a response from him though. You need to get on with your life.
2006-08-23 05:54:13 · answer #2 · answered by allyp51 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call him. I would say send him a "hand written" letter. Tell him how you just want the best for him. Really try to think what he's thinking and take that into consideration. Tell him that you really miss him though and you think the two of you could be happy together. I would wait until two weeks though. Give him some time to miss you. Also, I'd try to make him laugh a couple of times in the letter, so he can remember your fun times together. Good Luck! I feel for you.
2006-08-15 11:54:35 · answer #3 · answered by mary h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call u said what u had to say. If he wants things to grow between you too he will call. U don't wanna hear he loves u. U want some action behind them words. Show him u mean what u say.
2006-08-15 07:40:32 · answer #4 · answered by sazzybmt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT REALLY SOUND LIKE HE NOT READY TO TALK TO YOU
ABOUT GET BACK TOGETHER. SO JUST GIVE HIM THE
SPACE HE NEED. BUT DONT JUST SIT AROUND WAITING
FOR HIM TO CALL. THAT COULD BE THE WORST THING
YOU CAN DO FOR YOURSELF. START LIVING FOR YOU
AND NOT FOR HIM, IF IT MEANT TO HAPPEN IT WILL.
2006-08-22 17:18:45 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may not be ready yet, take it easy dont rush things it will just make it worse.
2006-08-22 18:38:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mmmhhhhh...... Well, U have tried to get back, maybe he is just playing u
2006-08-15 07:35:51 · answer #7 · answered by Cubanita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋