my friends wife walked out on him last month, she doesnt live there they dont have sex, but still keeps contact any thoughts? good or bad for him?
2006-08-15 07:23:33 · 7 answers · asked by lounwo30 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is "pre-divorce" stage.
Unless a major intervention happens, this will end in divorce.
Currently they are taking a "time out" on their marriage so they can date other people and not feel guilty. (Or at least that is what my cynical side says hehe)
Bad for him.
He needs to make the first move to see how to make things right.
Or just get a divorce.
2006-08-15 07:31:47 · answer #1 · answered by Katherine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the nature of their contacts. Is it friendly, or is it argumentative?
The wife must have thought she had a really good reason for walking out. Do you know what it is? Does she have someone else, or was she really fed up with the way things were at home, and decided she needed some space to work things out?
If the guy wants to get his wife back, he is going to have to listen to what she has got to say, and try to work things out as calmly as possible, without putting any pressure on his wife.
If the communication between them is friendly, maybe he could try dating his wife, and showing her some special times, i.e. going out to dinner, bringing her flowers, and remind her of how it was when they first got together. But that doesn't solve the problems they have now. If both are agreeable to trying to work it out, it may be useful to consider marriage counselling.
However, if the wife has decided that is that, she's moving on, whether because of someone new, or the feeling that nothing is going to change at home, then its unlikely that the separation is going to end in anything but divorce.
2006-08-15 14:33:08 · answer #2 · answered by aliantha2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means she needs time alone to think thing s over and it will probably end in divorce. mu husband and i are discusing a seperations only because i have come to the relization that i'm 22 and need to live on my own and learn to take care of myself. and i can't do that while living with him. i found an appartment down town and we plan on seperating for six months, which may actually help our marriage.
2006-08-15 14:30:18 · answer #3 · answered by ~Saratini~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they have kids they should keep contact,If not and she still keeps contact maybe she is just confused and needs more time to think about there relationship,sometimes there just needs to be some space between two people to realize what you have.
2006-08-15 14:36:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That they are not happy together. But can still be friends
2006-08-15 14:30:32 · answer #5 · answered by sazzybmt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if children are involved it's good that they have a good relationship if no kids move on
2006-08-15 14:29:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad seperated my aunt is
2006-08-15 14:28:56 · answer #7 · answered by jessie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋