My bf have got a cousin who is a hypocrite. She acts like an angel in front of the entire family. She acts like she is so nice to me BUT i found out that she have been backstabbing me to the other members of his immediate family! I bet she likes him though many instances ( i m not jealous or whatever,but it is too obvious)...Now she tries to sow discord when she heard tt me n my guy often quarrel recently...she tries by adding fire to the flames by making comments to his sister...what would u do with such a cunning b-i-t-ch around who u can nv get away if u ever marry that guy?
2006-08-15 07:08:42 · 4 answers · asked by Chanelle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to do absolutely nothing. Backstabbers like your BF's cousin are usually exposed pretty quickly. Hopefully his family will soon get a clue.
2006-08-15 07:16:11 · answer #1 · answered by rrticulate1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this s a very critical problem buddy..
If u r really looking forward to marry ur guy, U shud be patient enuf. Never ever speak to her directly.
since if u look @ a long term perspective this wil spoil ur name if u oppose her directly..
a thorn has to be taken thru an other thorn.
So u be cunnin to her only, be sweet to her and act innocent to her that u dun know wat she s doing.. and then pull her legs when she s silent..
This myt look un ethical... but never mind..
its to save yr love..
2006-08-15 07:30:29 · answer #2 · answered by Nirmal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you and your guy quarrel no one else should know about it. It should stay between you and your guy. Do not add information to what she already knows about you and stay away from her. My husband and I moved 2,000 miles away from his family. We went to visit them yearly and that was enough for me and him too.
2006-08-15 07:16:43 · answer #3 · answered by T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her straight up to back off.
2006-08-15 07:15:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋