What i'm saying is that i've been married for 4 years now and even though I have a huge *bling* (stone) on my ring finger, MEN always come up to me and strike a conversation or try to ask for my number or try to ask me out on a date.
My question is why do MEN do this....I mean the ring would be like in your face but Oh...No....that won't stop them.
Some would even go to the extent of trying to sleep with his Best Friends galfriend. Why???
2006-08-15 07:06:39 · 11 answers · asked by Missylicious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO....I don't Flrt with them...I love my husband to much...
2006-08-15 07:36:29 · update #1
You’re the forbidden fruit in the Garden of Eden and want it more because they can’t have it. Most immature men use it to boost their ego and feel like if they can wheel a bored, sex deprived married woman that they could get any girl. Or maybe you’re just to dam hot to be married, how about you break it off and give me a call.
2006-08-15 07:18:02 · answer #1 · answered by ryan o 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's the male ego. First of all, the last place a man is looking at is your ring finger. I take it that you are very attractive. Men have an inate mentality to be the king of the jungle. To be the king you have to have the queen ( or most attractive partner ). A guy just won't want to believe that someone already beat him to the punch, until he is told otherwise. If I saw you, it would be logical for me to assume that you are taken ( because you're so hot ), but I would still give it a try. ( and no, I would not check for a ring first).
As far as his best friend is concerned, maybe he thinks that your hubby is a punk. Maybe it's just extreme jealousy. No real friend would do such a thing, no matter how appealing you are.
2006-08-15 07:16:36 · answer #2 · answered by The Drake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because we see a ring doesnt mean that there really married. So we try any ways, I usually back off when they tell me they are married.
2006-08-15 07:13:29 · answer #3 · answered by Lar-Bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men/boys always want what they can't have and it's a game for them to try to get something off limits to them.
2006-08-15 07:12:43 · answer #4 · answered by Carol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They know it's a safe bet really and they'll get turned down 99% of the time and they can pretend it didn't matter because they'll say they were just joking....'she is married afterall'.
2006-08-15 07:14:22 · answer #5 · answered by Kayt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are men and if your as irristible as you, telling us we will keep hitting on you, until you eventually give in, thats the big difference there. you giving in.
BTW you should also check your actions, you probably flirt too much. When men see this they view you as easy.
2006-08-15 07:23:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had the same problem w/ women. They seem to want me when they know I have a girlfriend. I suppose its more of a challenge. Maybe your flirting w/ them, or they think you were hitting them.
2006-08-15 07:11:49 · answer #7 · answered by Goblue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are envious of each other, they want what his friend has. And they love the fact of sneaking around
2006-08-15 07:11:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a game
i pulled a girl at a club -
she said "i hav a bf"
i said "well he shouldnt hav left u alone"
she was mine hahaha
2006-08-15 07:22:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah cuz women NEVER go after guys who are already in relationships
2006-08-15 07:11:52 · answer #10 · answered by lazy bastard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋