I totally love any kind of pantyhose/nylons/stockings on a girl and I think it is very sexy to have a girl wear them for me. I've been with my gf for a few months now and still haven't mentioned this to her. Do you think she will think I'm a freak is I ask her to wear them for me sometimes? We have a great sex life, but I would like to try a little something new, but I don't want to freak her out and have her leave. Any women out there have any ideas on how you would take it?
2006-08-15 06:46:34 · 33 answers · asked by just a guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your fetish is something as mild as pantyhose....you should be sharing this with her. Most women are open to experimentation and playfulness, if it's presented correctly, honestly, and with love and respect.
2006-08-15 06:51:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Im a guy, just be honest with her if it turns you on hardcore then its gonna be good sex for the both of you, just ask her she won't be freaked out, and ask her what she would like you to do. Its only nylons/pantyhose/stockings women wear them everyday so whats the harm you can do its not like your asking her to have sex with another girl while you watch and to note theres nothing wrong with that. But its best to be honest with her
2006-08-15 06:56:46 · answer #2 · answered by gerry d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're lucky... pantyhose is a relatively harmless and common fetish. She shouldn't have a problem with it at all, but it depends on the girl. The chances of her having anything against it are very small, so just let her know.
Good luck, bro.
slyguy
2006-08-15 06:57:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a great relationship with her physically, then she shouldn't mind wearing those items. If you tell her that you "think she would look really hot wearing stockings, etc" then she would be more in tune to wear those items for you. Make her feel beautiful and special and I think most women would do that. If you say your as close to her, as u are, then she would probably want to explore. You should be able to tell if it makes her uncomforable, plus maybe she has some things that she wants to ask you to do with her, and maybe she's just as shy as you!
2006-08-15 06:54:56 · answer #4 · answered by Amber M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sooo whats freaky about that? Go ahead and ask her... you're in an intimate relationship with her and you should be able to share your fantasies and fetishes.... My boyfriend asks me to wear anything from a catholic school girl outfit to a sexy french maid outfit.... and EVERYTHING else in between. PLUS Nylons etc. always make someones legs look sexier ESPECIALLY if they are fishnet... so go ask her have some fun!
2006-08-15 06:53:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go buy her a sexy nighty that has the garter and nylons. This way it is a gift for both of you to enjoy. She doesn't need to know about the fetish this way either.
2006-08-15 06:52:30 · answer #6 · answered by cinson1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant be afraid to be open sexually with someone that you love.You need to feel comfortable discussing these things.A good way to bring it up is ask her if she has any fetishes she would like you to do for her...naturally, no matter her answer, she will ask you the same thing....Just tell her you think shes sooosexy and want to see her in those hose so you can rip em' off!!!
2006-08-15 06:52:25 · answer #7 · answered by eve11en 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u're request is not unusual in the least unless u want her to do something unnatural while she's wearing them. if u just like her to wear panty-hose then i don't see why she should have a problem unless she just doesn't like wearing them. i don't think u're a freak at all and neither will she. just ask her without fear and if she does freak out then it's her, not u.
2006-08-15 06:55:04 · answer #8 · answered by lady sixx 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her during a conversation outside the bedroom that you REALLY like stockings on women, thigh-highs or with a garterbelt. She'll either pick up on it positively or tell you she thinks it's stupid. You can take your cue from that.
2006-08-15 06:54:18 · answer #9 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be afraid to ask her. having great sex and trying new things keeps it interesting. ask her to do it for you, it may make her feel sexy as well. just wait until you 2 lovebirds start playing with toys! oooh la la
2006-08-15 06:52:30 · answer #10 · answered by Monique C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋