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ok well i was friends with this kid and i liked his little sister so i asked him if it was alright if i go out with her and it was ..so we dated for like 8 months .. we were really in love and we got into a fight after my one friend died and her brother asked what was up with the fight and i said she was being a ***** ..and he didnt like that ...so her and i stayed with it and he didnt like it but we never gave up ...and its been 7months now that this was keeping up and she thinks that we should give up but we still love eachother ...what should i do :'(

2006-08-15 06:32:40 · 12 answers · asked by brian s 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

12 answers

u need to talk to her bro and iron it out with him. it will make your relationship harder if u don't. if she oves u like u say she does she would put her foot down and make u all iron it out as to save all relationships.

2006-08-15 06:38:34 · answer #1 · answered by angel 1 · 0 0

Dealing with the death of someone you care about is difficult. Perhaps you said things in anger because of the stress you were under from losing your friend. Have you talked to her brother and explained this to him. Maybe a sincere apology would help. If the two of you love each other then don't walk away because of how other people feel about the relationship. That is not fair to the two of you. Of course the relationship would be easier with out the friction between you and her family. Talk to them. You may be surprised how much that could help. Tell them what you were feeling at the time. Explain that you now realize what you said was wrong. That you were not in your right frame of mind. Let him know how much respect you have for her. If that don't work then the two of you (you and g/f) need to decide if this is worth ruining your relationship over. Obviously she has forgiven you.

2006-08-15 06:42:47 · answer #2 · answered by geni 3 · 0 0

Let the brother know that you respect and love his sister. You were really stressed out and emotional and it wasn't right to blame it all on her. Tell him your sorry and that you would do anything you can to protect and care for his sister.

Brothers are always overprotective of their sisters. You messed up when you called his little sister a *****. That was disrespectful. He is afraid that you will not treat his sister in the way that he believes she deserves. If there are other instances where you have disrespected her or verbally attacked her than maybe he is right. But if this was an isolated incident in a time of extreme stress and it is your intention to treat his sister correctly you really need to let him know that.

2006-08-15 06:43:52 · answer #3 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0 0

You cant make her stay with you if she doesn't want to.
All you can do is apologize to her and her brother and tell her how you feel. Tell how much she means to you and that you only want her to be happy and if her being happy means that you two aren't together anymore then your willing to accept that.
If you show you kind compassionate gentle side, maybe she will remember how much she cares for you and decide to stay.
If not give her the space and time she needs to see if you are the right one for her.
Time makes the heart grow fonder.

2006-08-15 06:42:46 · answer #4 · answered by bree30 4 · 0 0

You need to apoligize to her and say your wrong, you were upset and you didn't mean to say that you should also say sorry to her brother, but if your really in love with this girl you will know what to say, but if she wants to break up ask yourself this how can you still love

2006-08-15 06:41:51 · answer #5 · answered by gerry d 2 · 0 0

my friend you cant make anyone do something they don't want to do but if you really love each other its worth fighting for people don't stay married for fifty years because they just hung out they fight but they fight for that command goal each other so ask yourself is she worth fighting for

2006-08-15 06:42:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Apologize and find a way to make it up to her. Show her that you truly love her and care about her.

2006-08-15 06:37:47 · answer #7 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 0 0

u should want to make her do anything, you should want her to stay wit you, dont force her, let her make up her mind, the only thing you can do is be there for her if she wants

2006-08-15 06:38:47 · answer #8 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0 0

If she really loves you, she'll stay. Otherwise it's just over.

2006-08-15 06:38:15 · answer #9 · answered by Jen 3 · 0 0

i think u r confusing love with somethin else sex maybe

2006-08-15 06:39:22 · answer #10 · answered by free4now104 2 · 0 0

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