My girlfriend is in spain. She calls sporadically but I think its cause of the time difference. but something tells me she's doing things that I may not want to hear. What should I do?
2006-08-15 06:24:43 · 14 answers · asked by Man_With_No_Name 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, the next time she calls tell her you miss her, and trust that she isn't betraying the trust you have invested in her, because you are being faithful to her while she is away and she should be faithful while she is there... and hopefully she will give you a confident answer like "honey, you have nothing to worry about, I would never cheat on you" or something along those lines.
Also, if she hasn't given you any reason to doubt her before, you should try to trust her and if she is genuinely faithful then she won't cheat. I know when my bf was out of the country for a few months, he would call me sporadically too (12 hour time difference, he was in India) and we would talk as often as possible, and I didn't cheat on him, and he didn't cheat on me.
Another thing you can is email her, show her that you love and miss her and if you do this, she will love you even more for missing her that she won't even stray, because she will think you are so sweet and cute cuz you email her and talk to her as often as possible.
So, just talk to her as often as possible, make sure she knows you trust her, and if she has been a good and faithful girlfriend before she won't cheat while she is Spain. Good luck!
2006-08-15 06:37:20 · answer #1 · answered by monavyas15 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definition of Paranoia
Here the patient becomes a prey to premature delusion. According to Kraeplein, in the disease the cause of delusion is internal, and no hallucination is involved.
If she is "BIG DEAL" there is over 150,000,000 women in the United states alone. I think the odds are good, you'll find a replacement.
2006-08-15 13:32:56 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How has her behavior been in the past. If she's calling u, which she doesnt have to do, then I think ur just paranoid. All things come to light sooner or later, if she comes back acting weird, then I would be concerned
2006-08-15 13:29:55 · answer #3 · answered by funkygurll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how does calling sporadically mean shes doing something wrong...maybe she misses you and wants to hear you or just see how your doing...
2006-08-15 13:28:35 · answer #4 · answered by sassy2sloppy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her what she did in spain and if she sounds like shes making stuff up then she prolly is. and that might mean shes messing around wit someone else
2006-08-15 13:28:44 · answer #5 · answered by cookieluvr2010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax...shes on vacation...if she didnt want to call u she wouldnt...i did the same thing...when i went away i called my bf every 3-4 days...u have to go n buy a phone card everyday...no1 is forcing her to call u....if u guys r honest...she'll tell u if anything is up....ask her whn she calls...dont wry
2006-08-15 13:29:41 · answer #6 · answered by chaand5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm, ask her maybe, tell her you have a bad feeling for some reason.
2006-08-15 13:28:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill out until she comes home.
2006-08-15 13:29:13 · answer #8 · answered by thesweetestthings24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you don't need to jump to conclusions before you talk to her about it. but if i were you, i would just wait until she gets back and see how she acts then.
2006-08-15 13:29:57 · answer #9 · answered by amandy245 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. Itis groundless fear
2006-08-15 13:32:46 · answer #10 · answered by vasudev p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋