The sex with him (virgo) sucked....I posted a question about virgos last week..anyhow the sex absolutely sucked....all the way from oral to the business....I look at him in a totally different way now....Other than the whole sex issue he's a great man, love to have fun, great on the eye......but I have to keep it real with myself...can anyone help me out here....I shouldn't have to teach a 38 y/o man what to do.....
2006-08-15 06:16:54 · 25 answers · asked by girlegyrl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'll give you some great sex! Date that guy, and just use me for the sex!!!
2006-08-15 07:53:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Oh boy.
First of all, astrology is crap. The fact that he is a Virgo has nothing to do with his sexual performance, or anything else for that matter.
Second; if you really care about him, then tell him what you want in bed and help him to become a better lover.
You said that you shouldn't have to teach a 38 yo man what to do; that's an immature attitude to have in a relationship. Don't just "expect" him to know everything you like, help him out.
2006-08-15 13:25:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well this is a simple one, Honey even you should know that all women's bodies are different! Anyhow it usually takes a long time to have a guy get acquainted with your body and what pleases you. Secondly, if you were going to have sex with him you should feel comfortable enough to tell him what you wanted to have done to you, politely. Third, how do you not know that his technique worked fine for all the other woman he has been with. Did you know that alot of guys that are attractive usually don't know whats going on. Why, because woman tend to flock to those type of men for looks only and usually are the please-rs in bed. Plus, they never really ever get rejection or negative feed back !!! Tell him politely if you plan on working on grooming him. You could be his best teacher! Note: Girl that's no different than any other woman out here we have had bad experiences too!
2006-08-15 13:29:49 · answer #3 · answered by souljagirpart2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's everything and all that in all other departments, why not teach him how to be a good lover? If it was just a lay, move on and think of it as choosing the wrong restaurant because you liked the way the sign looked. Is that the sign's fault?
2006-08-15 13:23:02 · answer #4 · answered by Thomas 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually sometimes you do have to teach them. It's not like you come with a guide book and some women are pleased in different ways. If his last girl enjoyed what he was doing he may not realize he's doing anything wrong with you.
Don't put him down just be like "I want to enjoy sex more with you so maybe we can try some things I know I like" while your having sex give him tips. Like "I like it when you do this with your tongue", "I like it when you touch me here" etc etc..
2006-08-15 13:28:17 · answer #5 · answered by Luna V 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A sign is a sign what the hell does that have to do with him sucking in sex.??
If he sucks teach him and if you don't want to then move on for another women can have him and probably appreciate him.
2006-08-15 13:29:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Zodiac sings have nothing to do with sex, its just the person. Maybe he doesn't goes with you, he doesn't ignites. This may change if you are willing to teach him but I would suggest you thinking about it because you dont want a guy good in bed and bad in ALL the other areas.
2006-08-15 13:22:49 · answer #7 · answered by Apollo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Where did u get the idea that the sun signs are related to sexual activity? It is absolute nonsense if not anything else.
So try to enjoy as it is. If u r not yet satisfied, ask him to do what u would like him to do.
Learn to relax and enjoy instead of researching it!!!!
2006-08-15 13:28:10 · answer #8 · answered by skr 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there's no shame in teaching your partner how to do stuff. Cosmopolitan magazine actually encourages partners to share what they like having done to them rather than leaving it all to guesswork. if he's such a great man, you should take the time to teach him a few tricks. that way, you'll love him even more.
2006-08-15 13:24:12 · answer #9 · answered by bonqueesha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being the one in control could be fun. It shouldn't be because of his sign. Just show him how you like it and let him know you want. It sounds like that you are in a hurry. Be the teacher and experience all the first things with him.
2006-08-15 13:29:30 · answer #10 · answered by cajunlady 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what does his star sign have to do with anything? anyway my bf's star sign is virgo and therefore virgos, in general don't suck. maybe it's the age. go for someone younger next time.
2006-08-15 13:28:02 · answer #11 · answered by sugar_lilly 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋