Just because im engaged, girls dont want to talk to me. I dont want to date them or sleep with them, i just enjoy the harmless flirting. I love my fiancee and noone will ever make me change that and ill forever be faithful
I just like the friendship of women. and apperantly, they dont want mine
Am I in the wrong? Am I too sexy? Will the women just feel the undesireable urge to rape the hell out of me? what is it???
2006-08-15 06:13:35 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would be friends with you.
(and yes you are very Sexy!!!)
Hot!!!!:)
2006-08-15 17:09:10 · answer #1 · answered by Paris 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Too Sexy? NO
Will the women just feel the undesireable urge to rape the hell out of me? NO NO NO !!
You are UNATTAINABLE !! That is why chicks (who are out to hook up) don't want to talk to flirt with you. It's the same way married guys with rings on and gays guys get treated by women. They can't get anywhere with you.
If you are looking to do harmless flirting with chicks then don't mention that you are engaged..simple as that.
You just want to know in your mind that you still "got it". You shouldn't be getting married at your age anyway.
2006-08-15 06:22:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jacob, you are very cute, but also very engaged! That means some chick already got you in her grips, and women find it difficult that a cute guy is getting hitched and taken. That they weren't the first to get to you. So, if you want to flirt, flirt with hot sexy married women ~ like me, just as long as it's clear that it's not going anywhere, harmless flirting is fun, like going to a strip club, look but don't touch, then you go home to your fiancee and things get really hot. Right????
2006-08-15 06:29:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though u might be carring urself wrong? I have seen lots of girls flirt with married men, and become good friends with them also. I think u might be too overconfident? little too cocky around girls? Think daily how u are in front of girls, and maybe that might be the problem.If u are sincerely true about just wanting girl friends and why, then u might have to change the way u are in front of them. One thing I don't understand is why is it so important to have a female frined when u have someone that is so close to u? hmmm?
2006-08-15 06:22:56 · answer #4 · answered by john c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see a problem with having female friends. Some girls might avoid you because it would probably make your fiancee uncomfortable. Maybe when you flirt you go over the top and they think you want to sleep with them and MOST girls will retreat after that.
2006-08-15 06:19:22 · answer #5 · answered by renee1724 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are so very NAUGHTY! I f you think it's bad when you are engaged just wait til you are married. My husband had soooo much action once he put that wedding ring on. Try "harmless flirting" as you put it with your fiance's friends instead of strangers. Because as long as you're taken women will want you. It's the challenge. And it's not just you. Sorry!!!!
2006-08-15 06:23:57 · answer #6 · answered by knotykidz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just hanging out with the wrong girls! I'm pratically married and I flirt all the time, it's fun, nothing else. Find the right crowd of girls who are interested in friendship, not relationships. (not love hungry little hoochies)
2006-08-15 06:21:16 · answer #7 · answered by Josh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay sweetie...
Flirting is not harmless. You may have someone to go home to, but the girl you are flirting with may not. You send mixed messages. Sending the girl home without you, making her feel less than.
Your little flirting game is selfish and wrong.
2006-08-15 06:23:10 · answer #8 · answered by Sagefrogg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because women take this as you not being available, and we don't want to waste our time on someone who is taken! Sorry...would you want someone to "rape the hell out of you?" That's just weird! You aren't wrong, but you aren't right either!
2006-08-15 06:22:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-17 11:21:19 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
becoz gurls love to possess a guy and they wanna be your lover and you gotta love them back...they wouldn see any good end and they assume u gonna sleep with them and that's all...the same case with guys come on they cannot stay as a friend i never had any just boyfriend...and beside y u gotta let on that you're engaged but you need to tell them that i really cannot be in a relation that's it
2006-08-15 06:20:42 · answer #11 · answered by CherOkeeGurL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋