MY friend!!!?

Question

she dyed her hair like 2 yrs ago and i hate it its blodish and nasty and streaky and her brown hair was so pretty but this is ugly im fed up w/ it i cant stand it ne more how can i tell her i hate it but she might not do ne thing about it

i m AGAINST dyeing hair and her twin sis made her get it like the it is and she doesnt like it either

Answer 1

It's not your problem really. As long as she is happy, that's what counts.

BUT, there are exceptions to every rule. Some women have no clue that what they think looks good, doesn't. They see a sexy woman and then try to look like her, when they don't. All clothing, makeup, hair color/styles, won't look good on everyone.

If you really think she looks bad, then kindly suggest she might look better with another style. Maybe you could both get new cuts and colors on the same day as a girl thing together. Or suggest that for fun she gets to pick colors for you, and you get to pick for her. Get temporary hair color so it will wash out. She may end up liking what you pick, and keeping it.If she's set on being blond, maybe suggest a darker shade, or highlights instead of all over. There are many ways to get a lighter hair color without going to a platinum blond that so many girls like, and so few look good in.

Answer 2

Pull out an ad from a magazine with a model with gorgeous hair and hair colour. Then show her and say that you think she could really pull off that hair colour. Then take her shopping for hair dyes and offer to dye her hair too. Also ask her if she has any tips for your style. Perhaps you two can give each other makeovers.

Answer 3

Just tell her politely that she looked more beautiful and more sophisticated with her pretty brown hair. Let her know that when u r natural u r more beautiful and by using man made products it will only destroy her hair more and more each day and a company iwll be getting rich off the products she uses to mantain her hair. I tried but i know this answer sucks

Answer 4

Have you ever thought that things YOU wear or YOUR haircolor pisses your friend off? How would you feel?

Leave her alone, obviously she is happy with it! It's none of your business what she dyes her hair to... Even if you tell her, she's not going to dye it for YOU! It's completely up to her and how shallow are you for even asking this stupid question.

I hope she's talking about you behind your back right now.

Answer 5

Why don't you start of looking at Hhair dyes with her to try and give her a hint before boldly going in and hurting her feelings. And if you do, for gods sake do not say "I hate it" Try something more sensitive like "I reckon another colour would suit you better". Hope this helps!

Answer 6

Tell her straight up, she wont get butt hurt because ur her friend, she should understand, dont say it looks the way u described it just now! then she will get hurt. But then again, if she likes it, let it go. I mean, at least it wont be walking aroung with that nasty thing on top of ur head! hahaha! But tell he if it embarrasses u to walk next to her,

Answer 7

It's not you. If she wants her hair like that it has nothing at all to do with you and if you feel you can't be seen with someone who doesn't fit your standards, stop hanging out with her. She'll be better off.

Answer 8

HI!!!! i'd say to tell her it looks bad in a polite way (if possible) and if she agrees to change it, help her with the choice of hair color!

~A-bug~

Answer 9

Just say " I liked your hair better before than now." Then maybe she will still be your friend. Tell me what she says!!!

Answer 10

my friend use to have gorgeous hair, then she dyed it blonde and it went like straw, i hate it, it looks so bad against her skin tone, but unfortunetly she likes it and thats all that matters, if she's happy, leave her alone.