What's the best way to tell my parents im converting to a muslim?

Answer 1

Tell them that you respect their beliefs; but that you think you've found the faith that best suits your need and is best for you. If you're an expert in Islamic apologetics (I'm guessing you're not, though), you can show them verses in the Bible which point to Islam as being the new religion (I believe there's a few). If you think you can point out errors in their religion (Here, I'm assuming you're Christian), tell them why you logically cannot follow Christianity.

Answer 2

clm2675: To my knowledge, Jesus was never a God.

divprod: The only religion 'of the devil' is Satanism :)

williamzo: I'm sorry to tell you that even in Christianity, killing 'for a just cause' is supported :) Rape, theft, murder etc. are not condoned in Islam (or in any of the three major religions) and never will be. Your local library may just be a teeny bit biased, don't you think?

For the moron who posted right before I did, nowhere in Islam does it say that women shouldn't be allowed to drive or learn. In fact, learning is encouraged. It also does not call them filthy, and it is not mandatory to cover your entire face. The hijab (headscarf) is not worn by all Muslim women, and if she wants to wear it, then it's her choice. Please take your ignorance elsewhere, she wants help solving her problem, not your opinions on the religion she chose.

Ultimately, your religion is your choice. If your parents are usually quite open-minded about different ideas, it will be easier to just tell them and list a few reasons for your decision.
If it'll take them some time to get used to it, maybe you ought to tell them you've been looking into different religions and point out to them what you like about each one. Then tell them you want to convert, and that you could answer any questions they have for you. Most likely they will be worried you are making a mistake, but if you are sure, they'll come around.

Good luck :)

Answer 3

When you start strapping dinamite all over your body, they might ask why you are doing it.

EXCELLENT seguay to your change in religion. Try screaming loudly about "pig-eating infedels" while running around the house with your body sheet wrapped tightly against you.

If they still don't understand, tell them that you are a filthy female that is unclean during a certain time of the month and should not be allowed to drive, date, be educated, look at a man, display any part of yourself in public other than your tear-swollen eyes, or venture an opinion. They should then figure out that you are going to be a muslim.

Good luck, and whatever you do, don't bother to fact check the horribly innacurate and FALSE Koran...by the way, did you know they NOW realise it isn't 74 virgins, it's 74 white grapes waiting for murderous terrorists in paradise!

Answer 4

The best way you should learn more about Islam first. Ask and get the refferences first. Therefore you can built your strong root about Islam.

Being a Muslim doesn't mean you have to leave your parents behind, they still your parents what so ever.

Answer 5

I told my parents I wanted to convert to Islam one year before I did. However, they were still surprised when I finally did. It is now one year later and they have come to accept it. However they do not support me and I don't expect that they ever will.
Of course you should talk to your parents about your decision. However, remember that it is your decision. Don't let anybody dissuade you from the path you have chosen, because it is a wonderful path. If you are afraid of your parents' opinion, just prove them that islam is the right choice for you and that it is in fact a peaceful religion.

Welcome to Islam

Answer 6

explain to them why u want to convert tell them that u converting will not change anything in ur relationship with them. Let them know that this is what u truly want to do. Don't be suprised if they don't support u straight away but know that they will come around to the idea of u converting.

And good luck!

Answer 7

Tell them why. And before you convert, go over it one more time in your mind. Remember, Islam, unlike many other religions, allows very little individuality in your daily life. Your social and cultural life will no longer be your own---if you want to be a devout muslim. As a devout muslim, you have to give the keys to your life by following Taafiq and Tahwja, as well by following the commands (every one of them, without fail) of your Mullah and your Qadi. Are you prepared for this? Then good luck with your new religion.

Answer 8

Tell them how you're old enough to make your own life decisions. Tell them the that you will always love and respect them no matter what. Your parents have the right to know but they do not have the right to object. Actually, the way they might respond to you depends on your culture and traditions. But go for it! You deserve to choose and to be responsible for your choices.
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Answer 9

I wouldn't bring it up until they ask you first. The opportunity will present itself sooner or later when they inquire about your life. If they pull this on you, "when were you planning on telling us??", just reply with this "I'm telling you now". Easy enough, huh?

P.S. the people that are saying not to do it are pretty much saying that it's better to lie to yourself indefinitely then to address your true feelings. My advice: Convert if that's what you want, and let your parents ask you about your life. Then you can tell them in casual conversation.

Answer 10

say mom dad after much deliberation and the fact that i hav searched long and hard for the right way just u told me.when u told me not to accept things as they but to queation i did and i hav found out the true path in my opinion.
then go on and give a long stirring speech before breaking it to them.

P.S. at one time or another every parent has told their children not to accept things at facevalue so u'll be safe if u start this way.may allah be with u.