I went out with this guy last night and he had a great time (so he said today) I thought he was a bit of a loser. How do I nicely tell him I don't want to date him again?
2006-08-15 05:55:54 · 32 answers · asked by kennedy977 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him your Dad is in town and you have a romantic getaway planned with him.
2006-08-15 06:04:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I go out with a woman for the 1st time, I can usually tell if she's interested or not. If I only get a hand shake or a hug then I don't call them back. If I get a kiss or they hold hands with me then I do. Last month I had 10 dates in 1 week. I could've had 12 but I backed out of 2. Plus date #10 saw me with date #1 earlier in the week. I know, just my luck....lol
2006-08-15 06:45:32 · answer #2 · answered by vincewood30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to date him because you have labeled him as a "loser," then maybe you should look at his better qualities. However, if you really did not have a good time, then you tell him that you think that you two would be better off as friends, or that you simply didn't feel that click when you really like some one. If he doesn't understand, then it's his deal not yours.
2006-08-15 06:01:03 · answer #3 · answered by littlemissfgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait until he asks you out again and make-up an excuse. You can try this a couple of times and then if he still keeps calling tell him you are sorry, but you got back with your ex-boyfriend. I know this is dishonest, but I am a believer that honesty is NOT always the best policy. Better to leave his ego intact!!
2006-08-15 06:00:22 · answer #4 · answered by Nunya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you don't feel the date going anywhere byond last night and that you had a good time but you are not a good match on many levels. It has worked for me in the past.
2006-08-15 06:00:50 · answer #5 · answered by miss_blk_kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with him. Say You had a great time but think it would be better if you just stayed friends. It may sound like bullcrap but it will be the truth. No sense in lying and hurting them more so do them sum justice and just tell the truth.
2006-08-15 06:01:46 · answer #6 · answered by bmwgodfatha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it all flow smoothly.Tell him that he is just not the type of guy that possess qualities that u r looking for in a guy. Tell him he's a great guy and all but it's just not working out
2006-08-15 06:01:36 · answer #7 · answered by Italian Empress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a man I would prefer that you lied as being told that your a loser wouldn't do his ego any good,just tell him that your not really looking for a relationship at the moment and you wouldn't want to lead him on..............Good Luck
2006-08-15 06:04:43 · answer #8 · answered by Kevin R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that the chemistry you need to date someone didnt happen. Be sure he knows there was nothing he could/should "do".
Warning - the title "loser" could be applied to anyone.
That would include you.
2006-08-15 06:41:03 · answer #9 · answered by Alexander Shannon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
juz say: "i had a good time last nite,but i have to be honest with u. im juz not feelin any chemistry with u. ur a very nice guy and i hope u find what ur lookin for, but that person isnt me"
juz try to be as nice and gentle as possible.
good luck!
2006-08-15 06:04:36 · answer #10 · answered by ~dulceria~ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋