i need help because this guy that lives next door to me is cute and hes nice.he waves at me when he sees me everyday but hes 18 and hes going to the school that i graduated at.and im too shy to talk to him cuz im afraid of rejection since im fat n ugly and i dont look that good and it sucks that looks matter but i want a guy that'll like me for me and i want this guy cuz he sounds like a sweet guy and im afraid that when he goes back to school he'll fall for another girl so plz help me im too shy to say something.
2006-08-15 05:43:33 · 7 answers · asked by sarah p 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to learn to love yourself before you think of how to get someone else to love you. Once you are comfortable with who you are your confident attitude will show through and that will attract lots of people and maybe this one guy you are interested in.
2006-08-15 05:49:47 · answer #1 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey-
Hold your head up high. It is the depression that iis the problem. Once you work that out the weight will fall off. You will be going for walks with friends and just hanging out. Get yourself out there and enjoy life. The next time he waves. Wave back and say "HI! How is it going." Then if you get a good response you can add more with time. Like I noticed you like basketball (or whatever he is in to). I have never really understood that game. This gives him an opening to start a conversation. Who knows he just might be the really sweet guy he seems to be.
2006-08-17 15:04:54 · answer #2 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so insecure about him falling for someone else. It sounds like he may already like you. Just go for it rather than toil over it forever. I hate thinking about what would have been had i just taken that risk.
All girls say they are fat, and rarely are. Even if you are lots of guys like chubby girls so that's not even a problem anyways.
What's the worst that could happen? He'll say no?
What's the significance of that? Life will go on. The world will still turn. You'll be fine.
2006-08-15 12:57:41 · answer #3 · answered by nonsanekp 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
awww...that's so cute! OK...speaking from experience here...(I used to be fat and I used to THINK I was ugly...chances are you aren't really ugly) I would just start a conversation with him! Seriously...just as friends, and usually guys tend to be shy around girls anyway so...just do it! If you don't, then you will go the rest of your life wondering "what if?"...and I know you don't want to do that! So...GO FOR IT!
2006-08-15 12:51:39 · answer #4 · answered by Brittni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men notice looks.
Its not all we notice.......... but dont ignore it.
2006-08-15 13:55:51 · answer #5 · answered by Alexander Shannon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same, I'm shy too
2006-08-15 12:48:22 · answer #6 · answered by (^_^) CHiccaaqui(^_^) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it up. you have no chance.
2006-08-15 13:00:42 · answer #7 · answered by seeinred06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋