i say he is protective because he checked my tires for me before i left that night. never had anyone do this. he wanted to walk me to my car to ensure my safety. i felt protected. i say he is angry b/c he is irritated very quickly about little things. i say he is controlling and aggressive b/c when i'm around him, i notice that he doesn't give me any choices and everything is done on his time. i don't want to be afraid of him, i just wonder if later on, he could be a potential harm to me. my question is: i wonder if he is one of those guys that is holding back these scary traits long enough to hook you with his caring ways and then once you find out different, it's too late to get away from him.
2006-08-15 05:38:47 · 11 answers · asked by precious girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. Be very careful. My ex was like that too...until we got married then he turned into a tyrant. I finally got away, but I wasted a lot of years with him.
2006-08-15 05:44:42 · answer #1 · answered by Sabina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, he is not holding back any harmful traits he is showing you now. If you continue in a relationship like this it will only get worse.
2006-08-15 05:43:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away from him now. Do not wait to find any of this out. He is already exhibiting some of these traits.
2006-08-15 05:44:49 · answer #3 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well l think you answered your own question.go with your gut feeling.and from what you put in your question l would say yes, he sounds like a controling person.
2006-08-15 05:47:41 · answer #4 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your uncomfy with his ways NOW....expect it to get worse. Your being really smart for analyzing his ways now...I say follow your intuitions because it is ALWAYS better to be safe than sorry.
2006-08-15 05:43:54 · answer #5 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out now if you have to ask us then you already know he is not a good guy. Trust your insttincts on this guy.
2006-08-15 05:43:39 · answer #6 · answered by miss_blk_kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out now.
2006-08-15 05:43:39 · answer #7 · answered by BoomChikkaBoom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say yes, ask yourself why you asked this question. That's all the proof you need.
2006-08-15 05:43:30 · answer #8 · answered by tpurtygrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-08-15 05:42:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be go with what your heart tells you
2006-08-15 05:47:07 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Does♥He♥Love♥Me♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋