ok so we were friends. he was younger to me, i was married, he used to listen to me and was sensitive to my problems. my husband didnt like it though i used to explain to my husband that we are friends and later on he was fine. one day he said he is getting married and he wont be talking to me and i cried..he weaned away from me and finally he deleted me(he said he went away bec there were problems)and he had joked abt sex wtih me so i called him a player and he said u used me as emotional dumpyard. and we had terrible fight with abuses etc. we stopped talking for one year. he returned after an year and apologized. but he returned only when he knew that i was very angry and he got scared that i might screw him. he came explaining hsi scenario. he never wanted to be my friend but he said he cared. and care should be built step by step. right now i m trying to remove the bitterness. i was reluctant..but then i and he used to talk casual stuff daily. no intimacy though.
2006-08-15 05:23:57 · 3 answers · asked by dsnmstis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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one day he stopped responding to my ims..i think he has deleted me. before that he had talked casually and also had said that he is busy..but even when he had been very busy he never missed my ims..
do u think this guy was genuine or he played with me?
2006-08-15 05:24:39 · update #1
all of u r good.
but my question is:
why did he delete me if he was sooo genuine??
anyone?
thanks
2006-08-15 11:25:59 · update #2
You many never find out which it was. But you CAN redirect your frustration and loss into finding new social relationships and new loves. Every time you feel cheated or used, double your efforts to reach out and be kind to others. There are good people out there that will treat you fairly.
2006-08-15 09:12:13 · answer #1 · answered by onemorealternative 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he's right. He used to like you very much but see no chance getting to be with you so he moved on, trying to forget you but you made a fuss on it by crying, putting him in a dilemma. Since he is so sensitive to you so he gave in. He's mad when you called him a player because he thought your opinion on him is he's a player after a long period of being your emotional support.Now he's trying to continue becoming your friend again and just friend. You shouldn't have any doubt on him and just being casual with him. No guys in this world will listen your secret for such a long time unless he's really into you
2006-08-15 12:48:46 · answer #2 · answered by tommyboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he was genuine but people change over the years and maybe he just drifted away. Sometimes we have to be thankful for the time that we had with a great friend and keep the memories for a lifetime even if the friendship has drifted away.
2006-08-15 12:36:15 · answer #3 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋