okay, my boyfriend and i have been going out for like two months now, but because of summer i haven't seen him since the fourth of july at this party we were both at, he completely ignored me because i guess that day i wan't looking up to "his standards" .. i told him off about it and he appologized, but it seems like he only wants me when its convienent for him.. i really like him because he is soo easy to talk to and can make me feel so happy, but in the same instance he acts sort of feminine.. and i like guys that can be hard.. like i dont think he would fight for me if some stuff went down.. and when were together and guys try and talk to me, he does nothing but sit there...my friend just called me and told me she saw him at the library with his x girl . he didn't deny it and came at me like it was my fault for being mad .. see.. part of me likes him..but part of me wants to explore other possibilites..part of me thinks he's gay,.. but part of me likes having a boyfirend.. HELP ME
2006-08-15 05:15:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you're just TORN in between the two cuz u really wanna be with him but somthings tellin you you should leave him alone!!! well i would have to say you should move on maybe he's diggin his x and he doesn't know a way to tell you ask him how he feels does he still wanna be with you well GOOD LUCK!
2006-08-15 05:24:32 · answer #1 · answered by mizzkrunk_09dabaddest 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't settle, don't settle, DON'T SETTLE, I've told so many people on this thing about not settling. If there's something you think you can "change" about him- which of course you never will be able to do in reality, don't settle!!! Are you really that stuck on the idea that he could be the only one. Look at the world honey, there are so many men out there for you and one of them could be EVERYTHING you want them to be. If you can't even imagine marrying this dude, what's the point? think about it...just think of where this relationship is headed
2006-08-15 12:25:09 · answer #2 · answered by Someone help me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should think about your situation...He might be gay and is just covering it up with you. Also if he's going to be a jerk, you might want to reconsider your feelings for him and just be his friend until something can be worked out.
Think about it and then make your decision, we can't make them for you all we can do is try to help and understand your situation. My call would probably be to dump him, but I don't know all of the details.
2006-08-15 12:28:01 · answer #3 · answered by BbyGrl80 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find you a real man that wants you for you.lol Forget him he dont sound trust worthy.
2006-08-15 12:22:03 · answer #4 · answered by instantgratification1983 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really are serious with the whole thinking he's gay thing... dump him... cuz if he is... well, you know... but if he isnt... u r kinda cold heared n maybe dont deserve him
2006-08-15 12:22:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just have sex with him that will work
2006-08-15 12:21:07 · answer #6 · answered by gbo1907 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋