well i recently asked: is he using me?
and now i need to ask how do you get over some you loved more than your life and you still do
i still love him but hes really hurt me
how do i get over him?
2006-08-15 05:08:41 · 31 answers · asked by ???????? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
BEST WAY TO GET OVER A GUY IS TO GET UNDER ANOTHER 1
2006-08-15 05:11:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hate to sound cliche, but it just about always takes someone new to get over someone old (at least for me). I think there are probably some people you never completely get over, but eventually it hurts less and less. You don't want to hang onto someone who's not in the same place emotionally as you are anyway (I'm struggling with this myself right now), but I understand how hard it is to take that step to separate yourself from him. Try to exercise more (that builds endorphins to make you feel better and also takes your mind off of your pain). Also, if you go to a health club or fitness center to exercise, you may very well meet that new person that will help you get over the hump. Hope you get through this soon.
2006-08-15 05:16:41 · answer #2 · answered by fitness_girl730 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grl, I just broke up with somebody I was very much in love with. U have to be strong and tell urself u can go thru this. I was devastated but I realized that I was gonna end up either pregnant or dead on the street. talk to someone u trust. It will help you release ur frustration. Think about what u can do now that u r SINGLE... Go out and have fun, u r young enough to do that. He is not the only guy and u deserve better...
2006-08-15 05:17:05 · answer #3 · answered by Cubanita 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling ( about a girl though from my point of view ).
I know the pain you must be in. It always hurts, especially when you would have done anything for that person.
People say time helps, and just keeping yourself as busy as you can.
You will probably never full get over him though until you meet someone else, but it will happen. Will just take time.
Good luck
2006-08-15 05:14:22 · answer #4 · answered by Mr looking for answers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many levels of love. I guess you got to the top level of love with your bf. My advise would be to change your routine and find a hobby. Every time you find yourself thinking about him try to remember how he hurt you. Meet new people keep in touch with your friends. They are the source that will lift you when you are down. Change your look. Wear different clothe maybe cut and style your hair a different way. Remember you will never stop loving him but you have to come down from the top level of love and just have him where you love your friends. take care.
2006-08-15 05:23:12 · answer #5 · answered by crm2662 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals. Time is the only thing that heals getting over someone. You should be greatful its over BECAUSE he hurt you really bad. Tell yourself your better off because if he felt for you the way you feel for him he would not have been able to hurt you the way he did. Use this theory to heal and know that all guys are NOT the same and that you can and will love again. Its his lost hon. Be strong and with TIME....it WILL get better. G' luck!
2006-08-15 05:16:23 · answer #6 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you should never love someone more than you life. unless your a mom. so sounds like you need to take some time to connect with yourself. you will always be around long after then men come and go. take some time to heal. it's the only thing that truley works. and just concentrate on learning about yourself and spend some quality time connecting with your girlfriends. laughing is good for the soul.
2006-08-15 05:13:18 · answer #7 · answered by liketoplay420 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't think about him and let that part of your life stay in the past. You have to hold your head up high and move forward. You'll have more then one heart break in life and honestly there are more men in the sea ! Don't beat yourself up over a guy. It's probably his loss and besides you'll find the right man for you when you least expect it. Get over him and move on !!!!
2006-08-15 05:14:05 · answer #8 · answered by smorgan1124 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard cuz im in that kind of situation where i cant get over him i dont know if i ever will i love him so much its just he has hurt me many times i deserve better so ask yourself do u want to be with this guy that hurts you? can u deal with the pain over&over again? i dont think so i think you should let go be strong start talking to another guy so you wont have to think bout him thats what im doin im kinda starting to have feelings for the other guy so just try to talk 2 sum1 else and let me know what happens GOOD LUCK!
2006-08-15 05:17:19 · answer #9 · answered by mizzkrunk_09dabaddest 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make out together with his little brother. On a ferris wheel. for the time of an electric powered hurricane. With Justin Bieber enjoying on a ghetto blaster. Then circulate right this moment domicile and have an quite stiff drink.
2016-09-29 07:20:16 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just gonna take time. There is no magic pill or special thing you can do to get over someone. Just try and keep busy. If you find yourself wanting to talk to him or missing him, call a friend instead. Find some new hobbies and meet new people. It will get better I promise.
2006-08-15 05:15:01 · answer #11 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋