It's brownish/reddish, and I'm kind of embarrassed for her. How do I let her know? It's very visible at the bottom of her butt and spreads up...
2006-08-15 04:38:45 · 36 answers · asked by Kookoo Bananas 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Yes, I'm at WORK!!!
Poor woman! People are commenting about it.
2006-08-15 04:43:10 · update #1
This is the ultimate humiliation....this actually happened to me in school. If you know this person well, take her some where private and tell her that there is a spot on her pants. It might be easier to tell one of her female friends that is close to her and have her approach this woman.
Either way, she's going to be embarassed....
2006-08-15 05:07:10 · answer #1 · answered by Just a Girl 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Find her a sweater she can tie around her waist.
I am guessing you are a woman- that makes it easy. Any woman should be willing to tell another woman anything she herself would like to know.
Take her the sweater, whisper in her ear...and cover he desk while she takes care of things.
If by chance you are a man, fins a woman you know is compassionate and tell her to do what I just said.
2006-08-15 05:14:20 · answer #2 · answered by Mommy_to_seven 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Gosh, I knew a girl at school who experienced this! She told us that apparently it was her first period and she was wearing a WHITE skirt of all things! Anyway, this woman approached her and said something on the lines of, "Excuse me, love. You've got a lot of blood on the back of your skirt."
The woman was very kind about it and really it was good of her to say something to my old classmate to save her from further embarrassment.
I'd suggest if you say something of this kind to someone, do it as privately and quietly as possible so that no-one else nearby can hear. After all, they may not have noticed.
2006-08-15 04:45:37 · answer #3 · answered by Cheryl B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just say I think you might have sat in something. There is a spot on the back of your pants. Message given, no embarrassment.
2006-08-15 04:43:19 · answer #4 · answered by karen wonderful 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know, Your such an ignorant person based on your other questions... I cannot immagine you wanting to be polite, so why not just go all the way and show yourself for the commy hater you are.
Eh, but if you really want to be nice... "Hey, you have a stain on your pants.."
2006-08-15 04:44:25 · answer #5 · answered by profit0004 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dear Kookoo: Did you get a little orgasm from asking this childish question? Apparently a lot of nice women thought you were serious and gave you a serious answer. But you made it up and asked it to get a little pathetic buzz, didn't you?
2006-08-15 05:35:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've got to excuse yourself to her and tell that there's something wrong, and if she asks what? then explain, but plas make sure that you're only two so that nobody else knows whats going on, and be polite and help her if you can clean up.
2006-08-15 05:35:19 · answer #7 · answered by Milton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she needs to check herself in the bathroom. Be sure to look embarrassed so she doesn't feel like someone's laughing at her behind her back or something.
2006-08-15 04:45:22 · answer #8 · answered by Annie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that she's got something on her pants. Maybe you could ask her if she sat on something. Don't let her know that you see what it is, that would only embarrass her even more.
2006-08-15 23:59:21 · answer #9 · answered by undir 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her excuse me mam but I think that you sat in something and you might want to go to the bathroom and check it out
2006-08-15 04:41:55 · answer #10 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋