I have gone down on her a couple of times and she does get off several times but its not an everytime thing for her. I love to do it and would gladly do it for her everytime we have sex if she would let me, but for her its more like 1 time a week that I can go down on her. Why is she like this and how can I get her to loosen up about me doing that?
2006-08-15 04:16:04 · 17 answers · asked by just a guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can relate, my wife doesn't care for oral either. For some women, it just is not their thing. I love oral all the time but she doesn't. It is just a fact of life and her choice so I respect that just like you should. Instead of trying to change her you need to learn to just enjoy her for what she does enjoy. If you keep pressing it will only make sex between the two of you more uncomfortable and less enjoyable for her. Focus on what she likes and not what you feel like she should like.
2006-08-15 04:26:03 · answer #1 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are probably a few reasons for this, but based on what you're saying, I can think of one really good one. If she shaves, maybe she's only comfortable receiving it on that same day, before any stubble starts to appear. After that first day, she's probably self-conscious about it and doesn't want you down there. I know it doesn't bother a lot of guys, but maybe she's just uncomfortable with it. Let her know that you're not! If she allows you to go down on her on one of these off days, make it VERY clear that it doesn't bother you. A real turn on is to come up every once and a while and say something nice (but kinda X-rated) about it. Good luck!
2006-08-15 04:26:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in a lesbian relationship and both my partner and I have to be in a very turned on mood to allow the other to go down. It's all about being self conscious about themselves. She probably thinks that she smells and it disgusts you. You can tell her until you're blue in the face otherwise and she probably won't believe you. Try giving her compliments during the day when you aren't engaging in sex and them maybe she will build up some confidence.
2006-08-15 04:25:20 · answer #3 · answered by Scully 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-11 09:08:01 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi dear!
Well as per my information most of the girls just love it. Your bad luck that she does not like it. Just try to talk to her, and sort out the roblem.I also love to do it, and really the thought of it turns me ON. I just hope and pray that the girl I find loves it too.
2006-08-15 04:29:56 · answer #5 · answered by salcsan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
were have u been all my life hehehe i would never turn u down from doing that i so love it
but in the long run maybe your not doing it right or just ask her about it
2006-08-15 04:21:26 · answer #6 · answered by vampgirl_00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with answer number one. She may think it smelly down there. And I think you should share the love.
2006-08-15 04:25:51 · answer #7 · answered by biscuit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people really just don't like it.
I am the same way with my boyfriend. Its just not her thing..and you can't force her into liking it...sorry kiddo.
2006-08-15 04:21:44 · answer #8 · answered by Bevin M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, youre lucky to be getting it more than once a week. I wouldnt complain if i were you...
2006-08-15 04:22:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u must be doing something wrong, ask her to tell u what it is, or should I say how she like it to be done. first tip the cli*
2006-08-15 04:22:50 · answer #10 · answered by Nayla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋