she had me when she was 17 and couldnt do all the things she wanted to do. she just wants me to do everything i said i was going to do.
2006-08-15 03:55:10 · 11 answers · asked by svmoran87 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Just listen to your mother for once...she only wants you to have the life that she never had.....she only wants the best for you....
2006-08-15 04:00:35 · answer #1 · answered by outspokenone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should work on your relationship with your mom, and your future baby's daddy, and see a theripist, because you are looking for love, and a baby will not love you, a baby will need you all the time, no parties, no fun, no movies, no dating, no drinking, no going to the mall no buying yourself anything without feeling guilty.. I am 26 and I have 3 kids, I was married, and I can tell you that it is a hard life trying to find someone to babysit so you can go to the doctors is a challenge, I mean think about what life with a baby really means, babysit a infant for a few hours, then a 2 yr old and then maybe a four yr old, they are all demanding and all in differnt ways
2006-08-15 04:12:15 · answer #2 · answered by haileybeth79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your mom. It doesn't sound like you are ready to bring a baby into this world. Try finishing college and getting married first.
2006-08-15 04:01:37 · answer #3 · answered by lynda_is 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should have a kid!!!
After all you have already made up your mind why wait.
Start living you live through your future child ... hurry up and drop out of college & work at Burger King to save up for your child's college education.
With a little luck your child will become a college drop that has a kid with someone they don't care about also!!!
2006-08-15 04:05:05 · answer #4 · answered by bone_daddys_waitress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom is only trying to look out for you. She does not want you to go through the hardships that she had to face. If it does happen though, I am sure that your mother will be fine with it.
2006-08-15 04:15:13 · answer #5 · answered by jtaaheld 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She knows from experience. Babies happened to me. I love my children to death, but have struggled due to having them so early. Now at 42 I am still working on finishing my degree.
2006-08-15 04:01:58 · answer #6 · answered by John W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you can juggle taking care fo a kid and studying, I say kudos to you! get a puppy see how it works out. Dogs are a lot of work too. well not as much as a baby, but you will get some sense of taking care of another creature.
2006-08-15 04:01:35 · answer #7 · answered by Natasha B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, these things do run in the family...
let me ask u:
1) how will u support the baby financially? nothing is free u know
thats it, if u can answer that question then u r ready.
2006-08-15 04:00:40 · answer #8 · answered by VanillaIce 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please listen to your mom, she´s giving you the best, most important advice possible! You have all the time in the world to have a baby, just wait until you graduate!
2006-08-15 04:26:30 · answer #9 · answered by Double 709 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well from my own personal experience i was pregnant and still went to school and finished nursing program with a newborn..but i am married and also worked full time..i was 20 when i got pregnant and 21 when she was born
2006-08-15 04:34:36 · answer #10 · answered by sjeboyce 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋