My Brother's Wife Is Sooooo Phoney and Fake, How Should I Deal With The B*tch??

Question

I need some good ideas.

Answer 1

be happy for your bro.
deal with it she's your sis in law. u shudnt make a big issue over it.
ok take care

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Answer 2

I believe that my in-laws think the same thing about me. And to tell you the truth, I really think that they are wrong, and don't know me at all. My hubby and I are very happy, along with our 2 children, and we have had a lot of comments from his parents and sister. Just in the last few months, his sister has actually come around a lot more, and gotten to know me a little bit more, and since then, I have not heard anything negative. Maybe you need to try to hang around your brother and your sister in-law a little more and maybe you will see a different side of her. My hubby and I have been together for almost 7 years, and it has only been recently, like I said, that things have been a lot better! If your brother does not see things the way you do then maybe she is great with him and they may have some crazy understanding of each other, and that's all that matters. It's hard on both sides! Just be nice, and try too see that maybe, just maybe, that she is a nice person, *****and she just may feel uncomfortable around you, and that's why she may come across as a b**ch!!****
Good luck!

Answer 3

I understand what you are dealing with. If you want to keep a good relationship with your brother, stay on good terms with his wife. You don't have to be friends, just be friendly when you are around her. Try to do things with your brother by himself so you don't have to deal with her.

It will make a difference in the long run, and you will be happy you did it. Believe me.

Answer 4

Depends on whether you still want to talk to your brother afterwards.

If so, be polite but not warm, refuse to get drawn into her tantrums or schemes, make sure your brother knows you still love him and that he can always come round to your place if he needs a break.

If not, tell him he married a witch and refuse to have anything to do with either of them. He'll probably win the lottery the following week, but hey, them's the breaks.

Answer 5

Hey...my brother's wife is a beeeyatch too.
And I just ignore her, cuz she's immature as hell and insecure.
Most people who act like that have personal problems and issues they are battling with....hey! always kill people with kindsness, it pours a heap of hot coals on their heads.
As for phoneyness...beat her by her own game.
Just basically do you and let her attitude speak for itself.

Answer 6

Just continue to be your sweet, loving self, and don't let her "attitude" get to you. She'll only drag herself down in the end, and you don't want to go down with her. My husband has a daugther like that. I usually just ignore her. I don't believe everything she says, and when she's wrong I tell her I think she is wrong.

Answer 7

i have a similar problem with my brothers wife except that she says stupid and mean and hurtful things just out of the blue like 'why'd you get pregnant when you know you can't afford it?' or 'your kids got me sick' my brother just rolls his eyes when she says things like this and after a while i just started walking away from her and saying things like 'i don't need this f'ing sh*t' eventually she would come after me and apologize. the only thing that you need to remember is that you don't have to live with her, just give your brother lots of sympathy and try to joke about it with him

Answer 8

Just grin and bear it. Out of respect for your brother that is all you should really do. Just try to keep your distance from her as much as possible.

Answer 9

well damn do you live with her? don't pay her any mind. unless she is doing sometihing harmful, ignore her. do you deal with her on a daily basis? tell you brother you really aren't feeling her and that you are going to stare clear or not deal with her...

Answer 10

You did say it was your brother's wife didn't you. GET A LIFE.