there is this lad i really like and hes sweet really nice and i have strong feelings for him. i don't think he likes me and its tearing me up inside i really don't know what to do. can anyone help?
2006-08-15 03:49:58 · 28 answers · asked by Rebecca H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but should i tell him? what if he doesnt like it and goes all wierd on me?
2006-08-15 03:54:36 · update #1
hes not a really good lookin lad i just lyk him coz he treats me nice just lyk a princess (may sound sad) but thats how i feel.
2006-08-15 03:59:44 · update #2
all i think aboout is him and when i talk to him it makes me smile...he makes me happy...is this love ?
2006-08-15 04:12:58 · update #3
so he treats u nice.. but u still think he doesnt like u? then maybe u can ask who he likes? and not ask if he likes u
2006-08-21 14:23:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are other fish in the sea. Perhaps given a little time and perhaps
getting some experience dating others may help.
(for those of you who have heard my spiel, stop reading. This
is canned...)
Dating is a skill: The only way you get better at it is to do it.
Ask people out that you like, but aren't salivating for, and
learn to interact with them. As you do so and people find
that you are appealing, you gain confidence.
As you gain confidence, you also become more appealing
and you can broaden the people who you ask out with
a higher probability of getting "yes" answers. Even if you
get "no"s, you now have enough perspective to not let
it alter how you interact with other people.
2006-08-15 10:54:06 · answer #2 · answered by Elana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was a student, there was this female classmate who always turned to look at me for seconds before turning away. This frightened me off as she never utters a single word to me except throwing me those looks. So I would suggest to you not to do the same if you really likes him.
Try the warm approach ..by finding a reason to strike a conversation with him. Do it a few times and observe his reactions.
If he do not exhibit interest with you ..then at least you know your position and forget about him.
If he reciprocate warmly, at least you know there is a chance the relationship can go further.
2006-08-15 11:01:07 · answer #3 · answered by Phantom of the Opera 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirt, I have had the same trouble with one of my close guy friends. You just need to be fliritng, and act a little bit more interested in him. Maybe he will realize you have a thing for him. Its hard, so give it time to work on him. Maybe when he realizes this, he might also realize he likes you.
The other thing you could always tell him. Its hard but its better than waiting impatiently. Good luck!
2006-08-15 10:58:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres not always compatability even when you love someone. I know from experience. We've all been through this horrible pain. You cant change his feelings dear. Ive been suicidal before. My Pisces way to cope is to move on to a new person for comfort, s*x, bonding, communication in order to survive. Im on my second marriage and its alot better. Keep on living. Confide in a friend and pray. Good luck.
2006-08-15 10:57:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u should investagate.IN other words see if he haves a girl friend first.if thats done u should try to sit next to him try to saty close to him to see if he would talk to u.If u did that all ready then try to look your best and see if u can get his attention..when a girl likes me i never notice but all of a sudden when it blows in my face i find out thats the girl i like too..dosent hurt to just talk to him if advice does not work. end this quick the longer u wait the more it would hurt if u find out that he dosent like u..
2006-08-15 10:58:09 · answer #6 · answered by majesty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just spend more time with him and see if he makes a move. But he may be shy so he may be waiting for you. Ask him and/or tell him how you feel...Good Luck
2006-08-15 10:55:12 · answer #7 · answered by Jade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him your feelings, but first think about yours. Do you like him for who he is or what he looks like...if its the second, then you are only in lust and shouldn't bother to ask. But if you genuinely like this lad, then I say forward march!
2006-08-15 10:56:30 · answer #8 · answered by femaledrillsergeant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try getting other guys' attention by showing off and being sexy or whatever.
You know,
A MAN TAKES NOTICE OF YOU ONLY IF SOME OTHER GUY PAYS ATTENTION TO YOU~~!!
Then,the only thing you have to do is stare at him ruthlessly
Like you are too intimate or something
Best Of Luck!!
CONTACT ME IF YOU HAVE ANY OTHER love problems!!
2006-08-15 10:53:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're sure he doesn't like you just do nothing,but if you think he's got the smallest interest in you ask him out,try to build up a relationship with him,or just go to him and ask if he like you.
2006-08-15 10:55:44 · answer #10 · answered by soroush_1363_ss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋