i was dating a guy who used to be so attentive, then after a few months, i slept with him and now he hardly calls me.
WHY?
Was i USED?
2006-08-15 03:48:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes- make a mental note not to sleep with him if he isn't in to you or doesn't make plans to be with you.
2006-08-15 03:54:44 · answer #1 · answered by ♥michele♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this but yea he used you. The only thing he wanted was sex. Every guy isnt like that though so don't put them all in the same category ok. Go find a real man and move on, and learn from this.
2006-08-15 03:57:53 · answer #2 · answered by SillyGurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes my dear you were used. If a guy respects you he would wait until you two are serious or married. It is more sacred that way then being used by someone who doesn't love you. Take it from me I've went through this before.
2006-08-15 03:59:11 · answer #3 · answered by Myra A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a shame , i don't know why he would do that maybe he did use you maybe he had a wife someplace, maybe you will learn from your mistake. But just remember it wasn't you it was him , but i am glad to say we not all like that, being used by any one for any reason is not nice, But he will never be happy the act of self will soon catch up on him. just remember hes not worth thinking of put it behind you, and be happy
2006-08-16 15:04:36 · answer #4 · answered by brian_the_lion2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are definately used, honestly guys find it as a challenge to get girls to bed, and once they have achieved that, its like ok done next target. But if the girl chooses not to sleep with him, though they might get more determined, these guys actually begin to have respect for girls like that.
2006-08-15 03:53:44 · answer #5 · answered by gpetit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Used like a old rag then tossed in the dumpster. Your the one who said yes.
2006-08-15 04:00:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i think so u were used, personally i think u must kick that persons ***; These guys always do like this; just forget about him, and make it a point to not indulge with such guys, either u use them or sleep with the one u love
2006-08-15 03:58:43 · answer #7 · answered by cc20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? He got what he wanted and has moved on.
Were you used? It would appear so.
Your next B/F should spend more time talking with you about your interests and aspirations, instead of groping you and sticking his tongue down your throat.
2006-08-15 04:00:39 · answer #8 · answered by Tyler Durdin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, definitely sounds like you were used.
2006-08-15 03:52:38 · answer #9 · answered by Desi-boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. Use your head a little net time!
2006-08-15 03:55:27 · answer #10 · answered by joew 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you were most guys only want to have sex then leave not all just a few
2006-08-15 03:53:45 · answer #11 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋