I used to be the nicest guy, but after having my heart ripped out I just treat women like ****, use and abuse, get some and get out. I don't wanna be this guy.
2006-08-15 03:39:22 · 18 answers · asked by Superflydog 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok, I must edit, I have sex with women, they know it's just sex, I am straight forward with them and tell them i'm not there. Yet still I wanna be there, I wanna get married and all that bla bla bla
2006-08-15 03:50:37 · update #1
Every female is going to bash you on here cuz of that. but coming from a guys point of view I bet now all the ladies are on you now. So you killed the nice guy in you and became the asshole that woman adore! You can't let one ***** ruin it for the rest of them you know? not every female has to suffer your wrath just cuz of one that did you wrong. Just let it go and move on before you drive another female to become man hater.
2006-08-15 03:58:00 · answer #1 · answered by Biggz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say you need to really sit and re-evaluate the situation think about what you want out of the relationship and in order to get the positive you must be kind. A heart break shouldn't make you treat women meaner it should make you wiser and learn to pick your women wisely so it won't happen again so quickly. Look on the bright side every body has had there heart broken trust me!!
2006-08-15 10:48:57 · answer #2 · answered by Sexygurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you need to stop treating women like a piece of crap. You will never find your soul partner with this kind of behavior. The world don't need another jackass. It need good soul. Being in a relationship have its ups and downs. It's a reality. Believe that things happened for a reason. If you are honest, genuine and sincere in whatever you do, good things come rolling into your lives. You just needs a plenty of patience.
2006-08-15 10:59:58 · answer #3 · answered by NikeT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to say it, but if you treat women like doo doo then you are a peice of doo doo ..........
A woman should be treated with love and respect.....
When you find a woman you want and need to be with....... guess what your heart is doo doo.......... :-( Unfortunately , she will see and smell the doo ....
then say , " YUCK "
My opinion :
Leave all women alone.... Search your heart ......
If you cannot find a kind person in there, then hurting others is the wrong way to lead your life........
Women desire kindness , compassion, attention......
If your needs aren't the same, then search for a woman that desires an abusive relationship.... They are out there just few and far between......
2006-08-15 10:55:02 · answer #4 · answered by Larry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm probably not the person you want to hear from, but heres my advise.
You need to imbarrass yourself. Might I suggest talking with your mother (or closest female guardian) about it. If you have an okay relationship with her, she'll be sure to tell you what an idiot you are. And how you'll die alone or unhappy because you want to be Mr. Man and abuse someone who is probably willing to give you the world.
Go home. Tell Mama. She'll set you right.
2006-08-15 10:46:50 · answer #5 · answered by Sagefrogg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its your own fault .you shouldn't have let the break up get to you that much that you changed your behavior towards women. i no its hard to let someone be that close to you again because your scared that there going to hurt you again. but not all girls are like. you need to just give it some time and when your ready get back up on the horse. but you shouldn't let it affect your personality because if you do it will affect your future.
2006-08-15 10:50:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all a mindset...if you don't want to do it, then decide that you aren't going to...it really is that simple....if you are only in it for sex, at least find someone who is on the same page....be upfront about it...don't leave any room for expectations from her when there isn't any on your end.
2006-08-15 10:45:40 · answer #7 · answered by mjboog2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think ur afraid ull get hurt again and u think that no commitment relationship will save you from that situation.. experience wise i can say not true ull just drawn urself to being more afraid to have someone who wants to be with you .. have a change and be the nice guy again, charge to experience what had happen to you before.
2006-08-15 11:04:37 · answer #8 · answered by kiss me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple, just stop it. try to treat woman better, not every woman is like the one that ripped ur heart out. i'm sure there is someone better than her for u out there. and u must sure, u will treat her right.
2006-08-15 10:47:06 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then stop. The kind of woman you need to end up with wouldn't want to be treated that way.
2006-08-15 10:43:03 · answer #10 · answered by empress_pam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋