I feel that I am more comfortable with this guy than my boyfriend.........What should I do? I knew that this guy love me because he tell it to me and I'm not sure if I felt the same way with him but I'm happy being with him .Should I break up with my boyfriend? I know that my boyfriend love me. I don't want to see him hurt because theres no reason that I must break up with him because his giving all the things(not material) that he can so what should I do? Any suggestion?
2006-08-15 03:29:41 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
See Gurl you are gonna get many more people who are really good and compatible with U in future but u r not going to be in a relationship with all of them so u need to decide who is the best for u. Coz if today u dump ur BF for this guy then tomm u might dump him too for somebody else and one day you might be left with no one by ur side at all. I think if i was in ur place i would have not dumped and would have told this new guy very frankly that i already have a boyfriend who is very nice to me and that i can be a good friend of him if he wishes too.
2006-08-15 03:38:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a time-out as you clearly don't know what you want either. So you cannot ask for help unless you know what you want. Tell both guys that you need time alone to think things through and to make sense of everything. If they really have feelings for you they will understand and support your decision. The sooner you do the time-out the less hearts will be broken. Remember be true to yourself and be honest with what you want. Best of luck as this will not be an easy thing to do.
2006-08-15 03:34:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax, ur boyfriend(bf) luvs u a lot & u say that there is no reason for breakup .
so avoid this new guy for a while , later tell him that u just wanna be friends with him .
2006-08-15 03:52:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont break up wit ur bf get the other guy out of ur life or tell him u dont want to be bf and gf just friends
2006-08-15 03:37:29 · answer #4 · answered by ryan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey u maintain both of them for some time parallely thus after some time the weaker point of position between u and them decides because wait time will give u answers
2006-08-15 03:39:32 · answer #5 · answered by uma s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u suld try to be alone n see tings try to balance d situation,n make it sure dat watever ur decision maybe u will not regret n its for ur own gud,but for me if im happy n inlove w/ my bf now and i know that he love me so much i will not look for another man cause on him u are already secure dat he really loves u,not like on this other dat u will start again...but it depends on whom u tink u will be happy....Goodlack
2006-08-15 03:38:51 · answer #6 · answered by kimy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ever you do don't make yourself a cheater...follow your heart and if it leads you away from your current bf then be up front with him but don't go behind his back to attempt to have your cake and eat it too...
2006-08-15 03:36:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont wanna be with your boyfriend you need to tell him and dont lead him on any longer.If you are more comfortable with the other guy than try it if thats what u want
2006-08-15 03:34:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get to know this guy better and make sure he is for real before you break up with your bf
2006-08-15 03:37:01 · answer #9 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to figure out why you're more comfortable with this guy.....what are your real feelings about your current boyfriend?
2006-08-15 03:35:06 · answer #10 · answered by aggie babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋