Guys PLEASE answer..Why do guys watch porn when..?

Question

Why is is that guys that are in a relationship still go on nasty sites and watch porn?

Answer 1

porn is not the end of the world. in case u didnt know guys wld love to be with tons of women. but when ur in a commited relationship u cant go doing every girl u c. so u just watch some porn instead of going out cheating. all site arent nasty, i'll bet u can find one even u like.

Answer 2

A lot of guys watch porn to see if they can learn any new things to keep their sex life spiced up.although some sites are disgusting and seem real weird and kinky at least they don't try to use some of that sort of thing on their women.I am a male and porn has nothing to do with not getting enough sex from my relationship it is for me a way of keeping my sex life alive and spontanious my G/F does not watch porn but she enjoys some of the things it has taught me.As for using porn as an excuse for a lack of sex that is a cop out on any males part.

Answer 3

As Larry Flint says - Relax it is just sex! Porn can be a great thing to watch with your significant other in the privacy of your own home/apartment. I would suggest that you keep an open mind and watch a movie or two with your mate. My girlfriend is pretty uptight about sex stuff and had the same question. We watched two movies together and she actually enjoyed herself and we got to play after. We also went out the same night and bought some toys for her as well. So lighten up!

Answer 4

Because men like porn. We are visual creatures whose penis is not really attached to our hearts or our brains directly. don't take it personally.

Let's face it, woman are classier then men in that area. I'm guessing you have a guy by your question. Does that mean you never "look" again? Of course not, you see a hot guy and you get an eye full. You may even have the passing thought that you wouldn't mind an hour with him in a different world. Yep, it's sort of a female version of what you are talking about in guys with porn. Your version is just more civilized because women are more civilized. Make sense?

Answer 5

Because there are things that we want to do that does not permit us to do at the current state of the relationship, eg. not married, new relationshi etc. So men go for porn as a release. Its no cheating if you are thinking along that line. Its more like avoiding the need to be fulfilled with other sexually available girls(ie s**ts).

Its in your favour, dear.

Answer 6

Not all guys do this and just so you know some women also watch porn.

Answer 7

It depends on the relationship. In some relationships I've never done it until we started breaking up. In others, I did it throughout. I had a long discussion with a friend once who shared my feeling that if we are in a really good, close friendship with someone we are sexually interested in, our sex drive drops to zero. Are you just his girlfriend, or also his friend? Try to be his best friend as well as his girlfriend. That should take him off the idea.

Answer 8

whats wrong with guys watching porn? some guys have higher hormone levels than other guys and watch porn to relieve those urges. also men tend to get horny more often than women so we tend to really need those relieves our gf wont give to us at our whims

Answer 9

It's the excitement of imagining doing things with someone that you might never be willing to do with him. Most guys don't talk that openly about the things they really want to do with their partner because they are afraid they will get laughed at or turned down by them. Try finding out what he wants with you, and if you don't agree to do things with him, at least accept that he has those thoughts and don't make fun of him for it. :-)

Answer 10

Because it is just fun! Try making a movie of your own, then he can watch you! Or try watching it together. Try some new postions for the movies. It can be fun for both of you!