After my blunders and arguing with her last night over text...my gf is now ignoring me. She said last night to my suggestion we talk today face to face rather than over text at 3am that she didnt want to see me.. and after a few more heated exchanges we went to sleep...and i havent heard anything from her since... should i chase? or leave her be? Or what? Sorry to keep bugging you fine people! Love huh..
2006-08-15 02:52:15 · 7 answers · asked by St Anger 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, I always found that in these situations it pays to show a bit of interest - but if you keep pushing and contacting they will go even futher away - it's like a power balance, the more you contact them and do all the chasing - the more power they will feel, in the end too much power at either side will cause problems.
Just let her know - the ball is in her court - and just leave it at that. Let her come back to you - perhaps you might want to play it a little cool. I've played the chasing game with girls before, some girls just love the attention, perhaps sitting roung with her friends saying oh, my boy keeps bugging me, shall I call him back - and so on! Show her you're a man, give her some space, let her sulk and she'll probably come running back.
Just keep yourself occupied and leave your phone alone if you can bear it!
2006-08-15 03:03:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
y do u always like to argue with ur gf? while some argument might be good in a relationship, too much can also ruin one. give her a few more days to cool off, then surprise her by picking her up from work one day with a bunch of roses or sumthin she likes and tell her u're sorry. AND DONT QUARREL WITH HER ON THAT DAY OR EVERYTHING WILL GO TO WASTE!!!!! let her win at any hint of argument she brings up. dont let ur ego ruin ur relationship as much as u wanna always be right
2006-08-15 10:03:15 · answer #2 · answered by rulewell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are u waiting just chase her with all the speed u have. U are in love, dont let d spark to run down
2006-08-15 10:10:01 · answer #3 · answered by ijlafia2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my experience is if you DONT CALL, ignore her messages for a short while she will want to talk to even more. This info came from a few women i asked myself.
2006-08-15 09:58:33 · answer #4 · answered by eric_rbb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her be. Let her do the chasing
2006-08-15 09:58:07 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start ignoring her too..............it will bug the hell outta her and before long she will be begging for your attention!!!!!
2006-08-15 09:59:55 · answer #6 · answered by Baybee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her sme space. let her contact u.
2006-08-15 09:57:01 · answer #7 · answered by Mike Dub 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋