My Friend and i have known Each Other for 5 months. We Hangout all the time. I like her (which she knows) and she likes me (which i know). Last Weekend we were spending time together by ourselfs and she asked me what i like about her. This might seem like a dumb question but does she acctually want me to tell her what i like about her or does she want me to tell her how i feel about her? or should i do both?
2006-08-15 02:33:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It’s hard to tell someone specific things that you like about them. Perhaps it would be an idea to take a moment to yourself, and sit down with a pen and paper, and write down the things that you like about her. Make a separate list as well, of the things that you aren’t particularly fond of! If there are things about her that you don’t particularly like, it shouldn’t hurt for you to tell her, because if she cares about you, she wouldn’t want to continue doing something that you don’t like.
I think that when you tell her the things you like about her, your priorities should focus on the ‘inner being’ rather than her looks! Tell her what makes her ‘special as a person’! Looks are very superficial… it’s what is on the inside that counts the most!
2006-08-15 04:08:48 · answer #1 · answered by I_C_Y_U_R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was just trolling for comliments. Frequently women do this just out of their natural insecurity. At that moment, she is waiting for you to become Shakespeare, and spout all kinds of flowery crap about the enormous impact she has made on your existance. You have to prepare by planning something to say ahead of time. Its just too hard to come up with something onthe spot without sounding stupid.
Its always better to steal good lines from someone else and change them just a little. And poetry is usually a bad idea, unless she is that sort of girl.
2006-08-15 09:42:32 · answer #2 · answered by n2bateyou2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You stupid boy, she's asking "what" not "how..."! What are the things that you liked about her.. her eyes, her cheerful smile, her bubbly personality? In short, what caught your eye? What took your heart?? What's so vague about that question? "How you feel" is how strongly you feel towards her.. do you just "like" her? Have a crush on her? Wanna marry her and be with her forever and ever? What is so unclear to you??? *knock knock!
2006-08-15 09:43:23 · answer #3 · answered by gameplan_xtreme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she could have asked coz' she is properly waiting for an opportunity to express how she feels about you and would like to be reassured that your keen on her before she opens up... you know just incase she ends up making a fool out of herself
2006-08-15 09:45:18 · answer #4 · answered by DibbY DeE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I asked my b/f to do the same, and I meant both (but more about my personality then my looks)
2006-08-15 09:38:19 · answer #5 · answered by blue_eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably wondering why after 5 months you are still just "friends."
2006-08-15 09:38:30 · answer #6 · answered by Nefertiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try both start off with what you like about her and then go into how you feel about her.
2006-08-15 09:37:20 · answer #7 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do both
2006-08-15 09:38:29 · answer #8 · answered by *~*~*~*~* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do both to be on the safe side
2006-08-15 09:36:30 · answer #9 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do both. and she really wants and needs you to tell her
2006-08-15 09:41:16 · answer #10 · answered by Inquirer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋