i am the only person in my family who has never been to jail, fined, arrested, or even had charges pressed against me. today i got disorderly conduct because a man stole my bike and launched at me when i asked him about. well the cops took my bike and gave both of us the disorderly conduct charge. am i as bad as my family now?
2006-08-15 02:21:52 · 32 answers · asked by unloved 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
NOO honey!!! That could have happened to anyone! Sounds like you were just lumped in to this guys insanity. I'm sure once everything is explained the charges will be dropped. YOU didn't do anything to be ashamed of. You sound like a nice person. your family does not reflect or control who YOU are as a person!! Believe in yourself and your character. If you can do that, you will come out on top every time!! my best wishes...hope that helped hon!
2006-08-15 02:32:26 · answer #1 · answered by Joeygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you would be surprised at how many people have had dilemmas with the law. going to jail is not a bad thing but in my opinion it depends on what you were convicted of. As for charges, fines and arrests they're not so much of a big deal coz' almost every1 has experienced something similar to this & its usually for small insignifcant things. As for the guy stealing your bike i proberbly would have reacted the same way you did...Going through such things are not bad nor make you a bad person for your family, its all part of a bigger plan as theyr experiences you have learnt from.
2006-08-15 03:17:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are never what your family makes you if you do not want to be. Go to court and fight the charges if this man took your bike. You do have rights you know. It is sad that in todays world that when there is a problem they charge both people, if you know you are right stick up for yourself!!!!
It is a shame you have a family like that, and that you use the name unloved. There are people who will love you outside of your family My advise is to seek them out. School , church, Alanon if your family is alcholic), many other places. You should love yourself then you can change your name. Good luck to you.
2006-08-15 02:31:55 · answer #3 · answered by Sharon A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not a bad person. It sounds like your confidence in yourself may be low but don't let this bother you. Everyday is not going to be a walk in the park. Everyone screws up and gets in trouble.
You also shouldn't be ashamed of your family. Of course we don't know why they've been arrested at one point or another but that doesn't mean they are bad people.
Cheer up! You sound like a great person. If that doesn't have you convinced look you got 23 responses in 10 Min. That's pretty cool!
2006-08-15 02:40:07 · answer #4 · answered by J Greenhood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no we all encounter problems in life and sometimes with the law,I don't know what your family has all done to get into trouble,I suggest you fight it since it was your bike and you should still have it now but be carefull on how you do it as the police can be pretty nasty when they want like when I got charged with trespassing in there foyer while I was trying to make a complaint and I wasn't doing anything but sitting there until I was in a sober state yet they only put me into detox but somehow while I was asleep in a cell, they came up with trespassing and told me 1st thing in the morning when set free that I was charged with trespassing,which is against our laws in New Zealand to do this, luckily I got diversion so it never went on my record,but then who knows,and they still have my finger prints lol,so just take 1 step at a time because they can be helpful but also assholes.
2006-08-15 02:45:30 · answer #5 · answered by s_d_wadham 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you were only protecting your bike. You must of said something to be charged or maybe the officer is being a bad egg cos he knows your family history.Dont let that worry you speak to a solicitor or ring free advice bureau in case you are being judged like your family. If id of been in your shoes i would of kneed him where it hurts if he was stealing my bike.
2006-08-15 02:29:33 · answer #6 · answered by a mother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not a bad person. Always ask this kind of question to your heart instade of Yahoo or someone else. It is your heart which can answer this question. Do not expect others to behave well with you all the time. Try to be as good as possible from your self towards others. I wish your success in future. Best wishes, Anjon From Dhaka, Bangladesh.
2006-08-15 02:32:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anjon28July 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am guessing your not...the guy stole your bike and u two got in a fight over it...get over it! But the guy who stole your bike should have been charged...not you...u didn't do anything. So no that does not make you a bad person.
2006-08-15 02:27:45 · answer #8 · answered by ♥mcmanda♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You were just asking about your bike. Your family should understand. I hope that you can get the charges droped. That would be good for you. Good Luck
2006-08-15 02:27:25 · answer #9 · answered by Wilma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dear you need to stop thinking in your family this way, that's very important. then you need to know that if had a fight that doesn't mean you are a bad guy, every man on earth will come to a min when he just loose it you know.. so its just OK take it easy and learn something new from this lesson OK man
God bless you
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2006-08-15 02:31:32 · answer #10 · answered by Clark794 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋