Can anyone tell me WHY some people in here go out of their way to be rude and hurtful? Its called questions due to the fact that some people in here GENUINELY have questions that they need answers to.
Is it just me being a bit soft or do other people agree??
2006-08-15 01:59:47 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ah escartee - you know you were actually my inspiration for my question. Its people like you that drive people like me to lose it - i asked a question - specifically asking the guys to answer - yet you have to get in on the action. As for ellie - why do you and her feel obligated to send insulting remarks about me or my jeep, when it had NOTHING to do with the question I had asked. Please do me a favour and dont EVER contact me again - either with your threatening private messages - which i dont see why you cant go public with - or any question i may post in the future. Thank you.
2006-08-16 20:55:40 · update #1
i asked the same question some time ago and feel the same as you , the people who do this are just lonely persons who have no friends and get kicks out of it , i feel sorry for these people who can only get a kick out of life by doing it. they need help and our support , don't bother with them there probably in a hospital anyway
poor devils. and if all else fails report the idiots ...................................this site is not meant for #@#@*#@!!! you get my drift!!
2006-08-15 02:18:45 · answer #1 · answered by pete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We aren't always rude, but there is a saying that the truth hurts sometimes. Some people get on here asking dumb questions and they deserve dumb answers. But for those with truly sincere questions I answer them in the way that they deserve to be answered. I only speak the truth....or what I feel the truth is. I think most people answer questions this way.
2006-08-15 02:11:40 · answer #2 · answered by Crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are typically mean because they're thoughtless and insensitive and were dropped on their heads as babies.
Seriously? I couldn't tell you.
But frankly, a lot of the questions are just as mean as some of the answers. I just ran across one not too long ago that asked why all married women are whores (because this guy's friends have to buy their wives stuff to get sex.).
That question was rather rude to the wives who DON'T require payment for services rendered, don't you think??
2006-08-15 02:10:00 · answer #3 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with you!!!!!Some people think they are smart by being rude and mean but actully they are just dumb-asses with nothing better to say or nothing better to do then hurt others!!!!!Rude people exist everywhere and there is no way to avoid them but the best thing you can do is ignore then because they don't deserve your time and attention!!!I don't believe in being mean to anyone i treats everyone with respect and i expect the same in return!!!!!Being a idiot with a smart mouth ain't gonna get them losers no where so don't worry about it just keep on asking itelligent questions, pay attention to the wise answers and ignore the rude one's!!!!!
2006-08-15 02:14:10 · answer #4 · answered by Baybee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A BMW Jeep????
Because snotty kids get on here and call others names. You are a great example of an answerer going out of their way to be rude and hurtful.
Remember writing this in your details?????
"""First off to the bitchy ladies - Im not PUTTING it on - its to see if I know what to do with it, And for Escartee -unlike you, fortunately for me Im not some butch lesbian that NEEDS to fix her own car - I get the boys to do that for me.
And guys - theres no screws with it - thats why Im kinda stumped
1 day ago
Ellie29UK - excuse me? A rattling little car? If thats your definition of a spanking new BMW jeep - then yeah absolutely.""""""
Don't be so quick to jump on others when you yourself are just as much to blame. It's not a dating site so you specifically asking for only boys answers just makes you look desperate anyway. lol
2006-08-16 12:23:24 · answer #5 · answered by Marlene 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically some people are sad and insecure and so cannot appreciate this community for what it is. They come here because they have nothing else and then run the place down ... I think the best bet in these cases is to do what you would in the 'real world' ..ignore them and walk on by.
2006-08-15 03:18:13 · answer #6 · answered by enzuigiriuk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to take those kind of answers to heart but then realised why bother letting some faceless person I a never going to meet affect me. I also posted a question like yours some time ago and the feedback was basically b**locks to them. Let it roll over you and carry on asking and answering
2006-08-15 02:09:18 · answer #7 · answered by Monkeyphil 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As with everything in life you get good people and bad people! You just need to develop a bit of a thicker skin to deal with it, good practice for the real world too!
In an ideal worlld we would all be polite but this isn't ideal!
2006-08-15 02:05:25 · answer #8 · answered by ehc11 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree! It really bugs me, and then on the rare ocassion I get so riled that I retaliate, I get a Violation E-mail from "Customer Care"!!! No you're not being soft, there really are some idiots on here.
2006-08-15 02:04:47 · answer #9 · answered by long_luscious_lashes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i found that the question i asked attracted only one person that was like that - the rest were genuinely helpful - ignore the people who are mean - i reckon they are just not happy in themselves
most people are not like that
and being soft isnt wrong - take care xx
2006-08-15 02:06:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋