If you tell a guy you are a virgin and its true. then he will be like cool you wanna come over tonight? but if you tell a guy that you are a virgin and you don't want to do anything then he says your lame and crap like that? I DON'T GET IT!
2006-08-15 01:43:44 · 20 answers · asked by youngan'curious 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because we are journeyman morons throughout our consciousness and at our very imbecilic worst in our sexual attitudes and desires. The desire for virginity unfortunately is a hangover from a time in our evolution when our need to insure the survival of our personal genetic line was comparable that of male lions. It also has a strong element these days societal requirements including the well known "male ego". The part about our reaction to the "you're not going to score later" is pretty easily understood and, by the way, rapidly becoming not strictly a male trait ever since Elvis set the female sub specie free and unleashed the "womens lib'" movement. We have studied and lauded the myriad changes for the betterment of women but almost ignored the losses to both women and men which in my mind so far outweigh the gains as to absolutely belie the notion that our intelligence is what makes us superior to the rest of the animal kingdom. Of all our inferiorities when compare to the great body of life "non human" there isn't even a close second to the inferiority gap we suffer because of our "thinking". You may be thinking that I wandered a bit far afield from the essence of your question but if you give it some genuine...well, don't do it, you'll very likely depress yourself, sorry.
2006-08-15 02:18:37 · answer #1 · answered by jshalejhale 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Guys are dogs... A guy wants to be with a virgin, becuase they believe virgins are tight down there and when you aren't a virgin anymore, you are loose(not true, but they are ill informed). If you don't want to do anything, they think you are a tease, because when you are stating you are a virgin, they take it as you saying hey boys, I have a tight pu**y and they get horney.
I hope this clears it up for you.
2006-08-15 01:51:33 · answer #2 · answered by missy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
guys only make fun of virgins only because sex is great and they missing on something very enjoyable but the fact remaines that they were also virgins once, so i bet they also got a chance to be laughed at...and guys want virgins because they are tight and wanna be the first ones to make an impression
2006-08-15 01:54:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please don't judge all guys by the childish retards you have had contact with. Many guys think it would be cool to deflower a virgin, but these guys are inexperienced and immature. A real man understands that having sex with a virgin is really rather dull. Women with some experience in the bedroom are way more imaginative and fun.
2006-08-15 02:05:58 · answer #4 · answered by ZCT 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I never make fun of virgins. Anyone would be a fool tomake fun of them since not too many of them are left around. I have had the good fortune of de-flowering one 19 year old virgin. It was one of the greatest feeling of all, having converted a girl into a woman. That woman is my wife now.
2006-08-15 01:50:14 · answer #5 · answered by jack 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A lot of guys just want a virgin so they can brag to their mates about it.if a virgin doesn't put out for them then they are crushed and want to destroy her any way possible.don't let these types of males put you down as it only goes to show that you have respect for your own body and when you are ready and the timming is right then you will do what your heart not your head or peer pressure tell you what to do.
2006-08-15 01:52:01 · answer #6 · answered by flying_eagle_72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys make fun of virgins. Only the simple minded ones.
2006-08-15 01:50:48 · answer #7 · answered by RayRay 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I never said I wanted a virgin. I would much rather have a woman that knows how do move around the bed room without having to tell her what to do and how to do it
2006-08-15 02:29:51 · answer #8 · answered by freeatlastboone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
reverse psychology! they tell u ur lame thinking that u'll give in to them.. they want u to think that giving it up is the thing to do, but in actually u'll regret it right after it happens..
of course they gonna try u because they wanna feel good about themselves about busing some virgins cherry and then going and bragging about it...
but hopefully if ur this virgin u'll be smarter than that..
and stop broadcasting that ur a virgin if u r.. that's none of their business but urs... when u plan to do the act then let them know then...
2006-08-15 01:49:15 · answer #9 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! All guys don't make fun of you female virgins. They would like to be friends with them and once we get to know ya'll we will probably do it with you.
2006-08-15 02:29:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋