we have been dating a lil while ad only kissed himon the cheek how do i get the corage to just kiss him on the lips??
i dont know what to do its my first bf yes sad i know im almost 17 lol
so please help!!!
2006-08-15 01:37:36 · 30 answers · asked by motormouth 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOU DON'T!!!! Kissing leads to sex which will inevitably lead to pregnancy. Do NOT start!! If you have to ask you are TOO YOUNG!!!
2006-08-15 01:42:51 · answer #1 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax. Believe me, it will come naturally and it's fun.
Let him take the initiaive and don't "fight" your feelings when it comes.
Here are some more tips:
It's best to kiss with your heads off-set at an angle.
Always try to swallow before you kiss. Moist, not wet.
Get your hands in on the action. Caress his face, hold his neck and pull him to you.
Suck and nibble the lips in between the tongue-probing.
Every now and then, detour away from the lips, elsewhere on the face.
Don't dominate the kisses. You are kissing together.
Stop in time. Make him want to come back for more.
2006-08-15 18:31:36 · answer #2 · answered by cordefr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's easy, after he takes you out on a great date, he takes you home, there when you are about to say goodnight, be sure that the coast is clear(no parents, or siblings, no friends), grab him and tell him that you're ready to make the next step, and grab his face and kiss him on the lips, don't worry nothing bad will happen, and there is nothing wrong if it's not a perfect kiss(you can even touch your lips together) but it's a good start.
2006-08-15 02:16:31 · answer #3 · answered by Faust 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad, I'm almost 17 and have only had one boyfriend. Basically you just have to wait for that moment when you are ready and there's no pressure. If he's your boyfriend and you really like him, then just remember that and move in. However, if you're really scared then, tell him that you're a little hesitant to kiss him. If he's really into you, then he'll understand and make the move.
2006-08-15 01:48:36 · answer #4 · answered by Shayla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just look at him sit really close together tilt your head slightly lick your lips a little and go towards him and if he wants to as well it will just happen because he will lean forwards too.
It's lots of fun.
If you have ever seen the film hitch, that might help. Basically lean forward a little bit and see if he copies.
Good Luck and get snogging!
2006-08-15 01:42:52 · answer #5 · answered by femalefromuk19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that he should had already kissed you. Usually it's the guy who takes the first step.
But, this does not mean that you should not kiss him.
When you are in a special moment, saying goodnight, hugging each-other etc, look him in the eye with that kind of look which would mean "kiss me". If he doesn't get near and kiss him.
Don't worry everything will go fine.
Good luck and enjoy it!
2006-08-15 01:53:01 · answer #6 · answered by atrabel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy an apple and practice kissing it passionately. Make sure no one is around or they'll laugh at you. When you find how you like it, then just kiss him. Like jumping into a warm pool when you think it is cold.
Try to be soft and slow and then nature will take over... just relax... not talking about s*x just kissing.
2006-08-15 01:43:14 · answer #7 · answered by missy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brought back memories of same situation for me at 16! Gently cup his face in your hands, look into his eyes and then softly kiss him on the lips. Trust me, he'll be thrilled and you'll be proud of yourself for getting over first hurdle. Good luck!
2006-08-15 01:42:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just pluck up the courage and smack him a wet one on his lips without him expecting it this way is much more exciting and he'll thanking for it. He probably hasn't done it because hes not sure or his waiting for you either way make the first move and surprise him
2006-08-15 01:43:57 · answer #9 · answered by Emiliana 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U will have the courage to do it, you will know (feel) when the time is right, don't push it let it come naturally...... Congratualtions most 17 year olds are trying to push other things to far, you have a good head on your shoulders, hang in there!
2006-08-15 01:46:41 · answer #10 · answered by fox69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when ur saying good bye just put ur lips on his do it slow and thats all i like the cute clean pecks not the slobbery tounge kisses but hey every one thier own
2006-08-15 01:42:11 · answer #11 · answered by CandyLand 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋