pls i need your advice on how to go about it
2006-08-15 01:33:29 · 18 answers · asked by Faith O 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
If you don't know,nobody can know.
2006-08-15 01:39:47 · answer #1 · answered by Leprechaun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have been with this man for two years and he treats you well then there is a sign of love, however you must take note of how the two year have been, has he satisfied your every need and has taken time out for both of you to socialize and talk about family issues. if the realtionship is based on sex or otherwise.
remember this is the person you plan to spend your life with so choose wisely and most of all you make your decision because nobody knows your man better than you do.
if the two years were great there is a strong possiblity that it will be great forever
Taking advice is good but u make the last thought and the decision still remains yours
GOOD LUCK
2006-08-15 09:08:51 · answer #2 · answered by prettyhott 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself these questions:
1 - Do you love him?
2- Can you see yourself growing old with him?
3- Can you be yourself with him or do you have to change who you are?
4- Do you have compatible views on kids, finances, lifestyles, religion, etc..?
5- How do you argue? Is it healthy and respectful or do you have yelling matches, cursing, violence, etc?
6 - Would you want this person to be the father of your children?
7- What is this person's greatest character flaw? Can you live happily with it for the rest of your life if he NEVER changes?
If you can answer yes to these questions, then go for it! If not, you probably arent ready for marriage.
2006-08-15 08:53:41 · answer #3 · answered by dixiechic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, do you think you will meet any better guy and regret your marrage later, there really is no rush.
Sencond, if you are really not sure and are asking strangers online then maybe you should really think if he is right for you and you love him to death
Third, maybe say that you want more time with him before you acctually get married.
2006-08-15 09:25:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you would know if it is right. If you are having doubts then he may not be the right person for you. Do not get married with doubt. Do it because you love him. Can not imagine spending a day with out him.
2006-08-15 08:41:14 · answer #5 · answered by housewives5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your having to ask this question then maybe he's not the right guy. You know when you are in love with the one you are going to spend the rest of your life with.
2006-08-15 08:54:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u don't know by now, i don' t think he's the right person 4 u.
if u have found ur Mr. Right u will just KNOW!!! There's no rules that u can find out if he is r not, if u meet that person u will know, trust me in that.
2006-08-15 08:47:15 · answer #7 · answered by cailin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In 2 years, if he has loved you in good times as well as bad, been supportive of your goals, your dreams and ambitions, if you communicate well, enjoy each others company, gets along well with your close family and friends - then you got a keeper! Most men are afraid of commitment, go for it
2006-08-15 08:39:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody ever knows for sure. You just feel it.
If you don't know after 2 years, then he's probably not the right guy.
Good luck.
2006-08-19 02:00:29 · answer #9 · answered by the_proms 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not know this person well after dating for two years,
do you think I would know him better than you ?
You are your problem.
2006-08-15 08:47:50 · answer #10 · answered by nomad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont know dont do it after 2 years and you dont know dont it will just wind up in divorce, you will meet the right one one day and you will know the moment you see him!
2006-08-15 08:40:02 · answer #11 · answered by Joshua Y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋