there was no abuse, she did this before when i was on drugs. I am am not and was not this time. please tell me some resources to find my children they are my life and I cant go on with out them, my youngest son is 6.5 months my other son is 2 years my doughtrer is 3years my wife is 26 if you have seen a family that fits this age profile inform me thank you and god bless
2006-08-15 01:25:37 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Good Morning, Sooo sorry to hear that however, a mom doesn’t just up and leave without warning for any reason what-so-ever! You have had to known she was unhappy and was planning on leaving you, so please don’t act stupid. Although you say you might not be on drugs and might have not abused her how you know she wasn’t just fed-up of you and your past acts. The police won’t give you any info because they think you are a sick-o trust me if they thought even for a moment that you were a respectable person they would talk to you and try to help you out, however you probably look scary.
On a more serious note if in fact you are telling the truth that means your wife doesn’t want you for any apparent reason and she needs help!! Is that correct? I DONT THINK SO HOMEBOY!!!!!!!!!! Take my advice if you are a God fearing man not on drugs get a paid lawyer and go about this the right way stop trying to find her it will only make things worst , let her figure out she has made the mistake and come around, If not get a judge to award you sometime with your kids and be ready to sign divorcé papers also go to rehab . The first step is to admit that you did do something wrong and stop making up false accusations as to why your wife just up and left for no reason thats a story that only you believe ;no mother with a newborn just does that unless she’s married to trump and has money out the A**.
Signed,
Simply dont believe your story buddy-o
2006-08-15 01:47:19 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would your wife just up and leave if you were not being abusive?
The police can not get involved.
Get counselling and work through your issue's - then hire a Private Investigator to help you locate your family.
But if you are in anyway abusive, leave your family alone. You say you love your children, but if you are abusive, the kids are better off far away from you, before you cause them serious damage.
Being abused and trying to protect your children is not a good situation... Mothers do not leave happy homes, the escape completely un happy homes.
Get help. then get your family back.
2006-08-15 01:30:47 · answer #2 · answered by Night Train 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the police know and they won't say then your wife and children may be in a womens shelter. They are private and only the courts and police know where they are.
If there was ANY kind of abuse in the house then that's why she left. She may have gotten tired and just left. No one leaves their spouse or home for no reason at all.
Contact Social Services and see what they say. Call around. If you feel comfortable talking to family and friends then call them and see what they say.
Good Luck
2006-08-15 01:36:42 · answer #3 · answered by peg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hire a private detective. BTW How long you been off the drugs? Because I don't think you are considered clean until you have been off 3 years. You were on drugs last time she took the kids. Your eldest child is only 3. Those kids may be better off not knowing you if you keep up with the drugs. Put them first when you think about doing drugs again.
2006-08-15 01:34:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid no one will up and TELL you where your family is - every government and private body operates using the Data Protection act and won't make known information like that unless you request your own information. I can suggest contact the citizen's advice bureau to see what your options are. If there was no foul play or illegal goings on, you should have a right to see your children.
2006-08-15 01:31:58 · answer #5 · answered by Disgruntled Biscuit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may no longer "restoration" this whilst she has the different. i'm so sorry, however the "honeymoon" era is notoriously short lived. That surprising feeling which you will do something "i replaced into being that guy that she wanted back... the genuine me." is going at last, and the resentment which you are the only one making an attempt whilst they "shop their innovations open (shop the sweetheart contained in the loop by utilising staying in touch)" makes for an quite unhappy affiliation. it may be diverse if she replaced into completely prepared to desert this different to offer the marriage a honest circulate, yet for now you're competing for her time, interest and skill and that's basically no longer honest. She holds each and every of the triumphing enjoying cards (has each and every of the innovations) and you sense you have none. She in all probability runs with this for a whilst (as long as you adult men enable it) because of the fact its so flattering to her ego to have you ever the two scuffling with over her, desiring her on your life. yet its infrequently flattering to you, is it? I say that's ulitmatium time - enable her be conscious of she chooses one way or the different - no fence sitting, and sticks to it, or you will call it quits.
2016-09-29 07:11:05 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the police won't tell you where they are then perhaps you don't need to know. If you have joint custody, then she could have not lawfully left and took the children with out letting you know the wherabouts of them, unless she had a restraining order on you in which case you will have to wait for the hearing date to decide on visitation rights. Other than that I wouldn't push it if I were you.
2006-08-15 01:34:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There must be a reason if police wont tell you she will be in a safety house under police protection. Your wife must be scared of you or you have done something to worry her. If under protection nothing you can to if you approach her you may end up in prison. Seek legal advice they can find out why you cant see your kids.
2006-08-15 01:41:07 · answer #8 · answered by a mother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you got a history dude. Willing to bet that we did not hear the whole story.
Is it legal or not? you will need to speak with a lawyer.
How can you find them? First you could call her parents. Its sure that they know.
Kids are young and i can feel your pain. But without legal approach, you are just going to cause more problems for yourself than you already have. Police dont like angry men searching for hidding wives with kids. Think before you act....
2006-08-15 01:44:51 · answer #9 · answered by Nick K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She left for a reason.
You are suppose to provide a safe and secure home.
She felt you are not providing this.
your only recourse is to get a lawyer, explain your situation, and set a court date, and explain and prove to the courts you are not a threat to her or the kids.
If you attempt to find them now, it maybe considered stalking, and may make matters worst.
If the Police are aware of this she must have provided proof, in order for them to act on. Otherwise they will not interfere.
Clean up your act.
Get a lawyer
Prove you are true husband and father.
2006-08-15 01:38:36 · answer #10 · answered by Juggernaut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋