how do u deal with a dying family member do u go insane i do my grand father is dying of cancer and r relation ship is not goodd i feel bad about every thing that i said mean about him i cry every nit
2006-08-15 01:04:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
make amens honey, i did that with my dad, and im glad i did, he he goes fast you wont have time to do it, then itll really eat you up, where he forgives you or not,at least you did your part,to clear your consionce.
2006-08-15 02:05:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that bad then try and make it up with him while you still can. Even if he doesn't want to know now, he will understand later. Don't give up on your relationship. You will have worse regrets if you leave it too late. Just tell him how you feel. Love always wins out in the end.
2006-08-15 08:18:21 · answer #2 · answered by middlechip 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have just lost a child this month, so grieving, hurt and being upset is naturally. Allow yourself time to grieve, to cry. Also reach out to friends and family members who care for you.
I'm sorry about your grandfather. Hugs Mel
2006-08-15 08:10:53 · answer #3 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you grieve the grandfather you should have had, had a right to have but never did have? If he will listen to you, you can say you're sorry for being mean to him but if what you did was because he wasn't loveable, just do your grieving. I would not try to make up with a turd.
2006-08-15 11:57:06 · answer #4 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please tell him that you feel bad if you have ever said anything mean to him.Tell him that you love him.Say what you want to say before its too late.Think of the good times only & share the good thoughts.Peace to you & your family.
2006-08-15 08:09:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's still alive you have time to TALK WITH HIM...try to forgive him and also forgive yourself.
you had your reasons for not getting along with him and that had NOTHING to do with his cancer.
Forgiving isn't forgetting- it's remembering and LETTING GO.
2006-08-15 08:11:29 · answer #6 · answered by R J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO SIT WITH HIM BEFORE HE DIES AND TELL HIM HOW SORRY YOU ARE AND HOW MUCH YOU REALLY LOVE HIM AND APPRECIATE HIM...YOU BOTH WILL FEEL SO MUCH BETTER... GOOD LUCK TO YOU , AND SORRY ABOUT YOUR GRANDPA....
2006-08-15 08:13:18 · answer #7 · answered by MARY B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** you!
2006-08-15 08:08:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋