be honest now! Please state your preferences and why too.
2006-08-15 00:39:35 · 28 answers · asked by yo_chick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i prefer personality, sense of humour, intelligence and sexually adventurous...
everything else is transitory!!!
2006-08-15 00:41:25 · answer #1 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It matters but for some guys the amount it matters can differ significantly.
As far as I am concerned there must be a physical attraction because no matter how much you might love someone if they look like the back end of a bus that is going to put you off.
I hope that I am able to see beyond the physical but for me there has to be a socially acceptable level of beauty. I have stopped dating girls for many reasons, mostly because they were borderline psycho, but also (to my shame) for physical imperfections that gnawed away at me.
As I have got older I am able to be more discerning but then I am a married man so my choice is made. However, if my wife took on whale-like proportions then I would gently encourage a return to normality (and I expect she would do the same for me).
By the way, if I was to specify my ideal preferences they would not tally with what my wife is like so maybe I am not that shallow after all.
2006-08-15 08:14:40 · answer #2 · answered by Dadams 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it matters. If a girl is not sexually attractive to me, she will never have a chance to prove that I like her "personality".
Besides, sex is an important part of any relationship. Why would I want a relationship with someone that would make me sick even imagining them naked.
Guys (and girls) who say that only personality is important are lying. Or deluding themselves. Now, granted, people have different tastes. And looks aren't everything. But there is a limit to what anyone can accept when looking for a significant other (or just a quick screw).
My preferences are a naturally beautiful healthy female with nice t&a, and a *slightly* "nerdy" personality.
2006-08-15 07:50:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In all honesty, yes a girls shape and size does matter. This is what attracts most men to women. This is unfortunate as you only truly get to deeply love someone when you get to know them, their body size has nothing to do with this sort of chemistry.
2006-08-15 07:54:58 · answer #4 · answered by A Good Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly yes . . looks are the first form of attraction a girls size and shape matter to me because i want to be attracted to her mind and her body!!but it is also important that she has a kind heart and a good personality. but i prefer a girl who is in shape and is attractive !! everybody has a preference . . most guyz i know would say the same!!
2006-08-15 08:23:35 · answer #5 · answered by scott s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
course it does, there has to be something there, some sort of attraction some sexual desires, ok its not the be all and end all, but it matters, how can you get to know someone's personality - if you cant stand to look at them, love maybe blind, but people arn't, there has to be something attractive about them for a guy/girl to want to get to know them, even if its just the eyes or smile or what not, first impressions n all that
me personally
short, dark hair,slim but not a skeleton, kinda gothic attitude but intelligent, oh wait - thats my girlfriend, for me i saw her and i was instantly attracted to her, her smile, laugh, her deep green eyes,her long dark hair,ok before her i had had crushes and fancied others, but my god not as much as her, she beautiful, and she's the only person in the world i would ever consider as beautiful, she is the only one i want to be with, yet that doesn't come thru her looks but her personally, i love her not her appearence, yet her being beauitful makes me all the more luckier, i feel like the luckiest guy alive cos i've got the best of everything, but it all came from me being attracted to her
2006-08-15 08:38:57 · answer #6 · answered by me-jus-me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes the good looking is a key to know the personality and to know the real girl behind the face.
she might be the best one ever but no one tried to see the inside because of the outside , thats life to be honest.
but after you fell in love the looks will no longer be a matter because the personality will take its way in.
2006-08-15 07:57:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her shape and size obviously does matter. You don't see many good looking guys going out with great big lumpy girls.
2006-08-15 07:47:01 · answer #8 · answered by kytho 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am not interested in large girls, ok i said it.. FAT FATY FAT. No they need to have a nice body to be physically attracted to them. But too skinny is not nice too. unless they have large lols. Sorry for being brutally honest!
2006-08-15 13:02:15 · answer #9 · answered by paulcartwheel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah it doesn't matter really!personality is key!as long as the girl is not like huge then it doesn't matter and looks well they play a small part yea but as i said personality is better
2006-08-15 07:44:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi sweet thing no size dose not matter it revolves around the feelings, personalty. jdgreenmh@yahoo.com
2006-08-15 07:57:59 · answer #11 · answered by Badseed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋