How long have you ever gone out with a guy/girl before and while in that relationship did you ever cheat or think about cheating on him/her?????I have been with my man now for almost 10 years but there have been several times in the past that i have left him because i find that my sex life with dull boring and going no where so i needing some spicing up!!!!!I have been with him now for 3 years without leaving because i want to try to make things work for the sake of our kids and i really do love him but i am sure if i am still physically attracted to him as i once was!!!!!!I think once the sex life goes dead there's not a lot keeping the relationship alive!!!!!DO you think there is anyway for a relationship to survive with a dying near non-existent sex life?????First our sex life use to be fun and i enjoyed having sex with him now when we do i am lying there just waiting for him to get it over with i rarely get off on it and i don't know what to do..........it's killing me!!!!!!!!
2006-08-15 00:32:54 · 8 answers · asked by Baybee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hay sounds like a relationship i was in this was 4 years ago..just like you the sex life was just dead it was fun fun fun at first but it went sour?? i think the last year of the relationship we had sex 3 times not good.. :-( . So we sat down had a good long talk about it and wot was happening to us. we split up in the end but are still good friends.....So try and find time to talk about it. Good luck
2006-08-15 00:58:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well 6 years and currently in a 3 years relationship and because i have dealt with similar situation, i will tell you, spice it up go to a adult store, watch videos read books, dress up and initiate it usually for us woman it is mental so let him know how you feel!!!as longest you aren't happy you wont enjoy it so do something about it don't wait to he figures it out if you want to make it work
2006-08-15 07:45:03 · answer #2 · answered by chunkybaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The last one, 3 years. Now single!
2006-08-15 07:36:40 · answer #3 · answered by Jerdy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one relation stayed 3 years and that when I was a teenager, and then she brake up with me just like that, sow I toke an oath, that I will never get involved with a girl more than one month, (touch and go), but be sure that I will tell her that am married and I need satisfaction nothing more then we break up, and so on and on like that, and that's my method, hope you like, and sometimes really I tell my self I need love and a long relationship but I say its not me am not just for one person, and I know I will brak up with her.
2006-08-15 07:48:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
2yrs an couple months ok try four play different sex games to put the heat back into things different positions they have all kind of sex games u can play!!
2006-08-15 07:41:45 · answer #5 · answered by blade 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
23 years and still going.
2006-08-15 07:37:04 · answer #6 · answered by Ray 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i,ve been with my ex-wife for 17 years , 7 of them married.
2006-08-15 07:42:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ugh, right.
2006-08-15 07:37:06 · answer #8 · answered by Killer Bee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋