I am a very smart but I am very shy. I don't talk much only to friends! I am sort of I don't know I am a virgin. In my life I have been sexually molested 2 times. but It never went that far! and I thank god for that! Would you want me? I don't trust guys very easily!
2006-08-15 00:19:05 · 15 answers · asked by youngan'curious 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This may not be the answer you are looking for but here it goes:
Unless you open up and show a little trust in guys, you will never be appealing to men. It is one thing to be wary of all the men you men, but if you give off an aura of unapproachability, guys will notice this and will not generally make a move on you.
You need to relax around men. You need to learn how to flirt and talk to members of the opposite sex. If the molestation has done something bad psychologically, then you may want to seek medical attention.
Most importantly, you gotta love yourself before loving others.
2006-08-15 00:33:37 · answer #1 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you have a lot to offer. The right guy will come along. Just be yourself, and be happy with yourself.
PS I hope you received medical attention and counseling after the molestation. Counselors may help you to work through feelings if you need to.
PPS It never even occurred to me to read your question as asking whether the fact that you were molested or whether you were a virgin or not was a concern. Any guy who has problems with those things is not worth a moment of your time. ALL your experiences, good and bad, make you who you are. If someone loves you (and many will want to), they will accept you. Don't YOU settle for anything less!
Good luck. God bless.
2006-08-15 00:25:26 · answer #2 · answered by American citizen and taxpayer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes their are good men out their that would love you to no end but be careful when choosing. Some times a person with your history will be attracted to men that are NOT good for you. Don't be influenced into a relationship until you get to know a few different types of men. When your shy its hard to get to know what people are really like. Go to social events with friends with the idea and goal of meeting new people. More you meet the better you get to know people. good luck
2006-08-15 02:09:17 · answer #3 · answered by tazintampa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure why not there is nothing wrong with being shy and I'm sorry about the molestation but not all men are the same and I'm sure you could find a nice guy who would love the fact that your still a virgin
2006-08-15 02:44:18 · answer #4 · answered by freeatlastboone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course a guy would want you...... you did not choose to be sexually molested, so any guy that would hold that against you is an a sshole anyway, and not worth your time.
2006-08-15 00:23:26 · answer #5 · answered by President25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, as long as you have a willing attitude and are attractive, I would.
Your past doesn't matter to me, it's not like it's your fault that you were molested.
Remember, the key word here is; effort.
2006-08-15 00:25:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are really very smart yes.
if you are really virgin yes yes.
send me an email if you want .
2006-08-15 00:25:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r the perfect choice of so many :) just trust u deserve one. good luck
2006-08-15 00:22:31 · answer #8 · answered by Stranger in wonderland 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeap ... ur kind of a dream-girl for many...i`m in an relationship right now but who knows maybe later ;)
2006-08-15 00:39:39 · answer #9 · answered by Spike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there will be men out there for you!! you sound like a lovely lady good luck!!
2006-08-15 00:32:07 · answer #10 · answered by to_goodgood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋