when i talking to my boyfriend about problems in our relatioship i feel like he is ignoring me i ask for a answer or response he say nothing walks away or hangs up
what does that mean? doest it mean he does not care?
i really want to break up
2006-08-14 23:18:56 · 29 answers · asked by Cat 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe he need some time-off. Give him little time alone as he maybe having some tensed situation outside. It will be worse to keep nagging him. Sometimes silence is the best solution and thats the reason why people meditate. So just give a try before you could make a drastic move that may put your relationship to end
2006-08-14 23:26:34 · answer #1 · answered by manZen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa... give him some time to grow up. How old is he? Anyway, if he is honest, works, doesn't do crimes, and has no addictions - well, maybe stick with him. You're lucky to have a guy! Are you perfect? Do you do things for him to make him feel loved? It's a give and take...
Some people don't always want to talk problems. Are you whining? Crying at him? A guy cannot handle that. If you criticize him, that's way to much for a guy. Try: when you do this, I feel that.... and that's about all. If you feel upset with him, tell him one time, and don't call him again and again. Do not discuss the issue more than once, until the thing(s) he does bothers you again. Take actions to avoid whatever it is you don't like about him. That way, you get what you like, but not what you can't stand. However, nobody is perfect. You might not find that perfect person in your lifetime. Maybe your family is super, so you expect others to be.
If he is unfair, do it right back at him once so he sees it, and see if he complains. Assert your rights without fear of being 'not nice.' And if you still don't like him, consider relationship therapy. Then, you can break up.
2006-08-15 06:29:40 · answer #2 · answered by bwsnyder2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frankie P Your Account Should Be Closed Pretty Soon...
Also To The Question....Honestly That Means He Cares But Doesn't Know How To Confront You About It...Or Maybe He Doesn't I'd Say Have A Sit Down Talk With Him And Make Him Listen, Threatin Him About Leaving For Good To Get His Attention... Hope That Helps..
2006-08-15 06:22:29 · answer #3 · answered by iLL_TeK_NeekZ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men have a hard time expressing how they feel and are looking for the woman to make the move and make it easier for them. If you really want out of this relationship then just make a night with him and just come right out and tell him you want this to be over. He won't have a choice if this doesn't work write him a long letter and explain what you are feeling. You must do what is good for you. You come first and you have to get on with your life. Men are big babies most of the time and have no back bones when it comes to communication. Give him the out he's looking for and if he really wants you then it will be up to him to fight for your attention this time. I have had to do the deed myself at least three times.
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2006-08-15 06:20:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah child, these problems are not what life is about. You need a partner, someone who explores life with you, and someone who is your true friend. Not some kid who won't listen to you! Every relationship is tough, and takes work. We have to be willing to work, listen and compromise. I think you are young! I also know your heart is in the right place!
2006-08-15 06:24:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my it sounds like he doesn't want to be bothered. If you can't talk to him and feel like he doesn't love you anymore maybe he never did. break up with him and see what happens. Maybe that will get his attention if he cares. and if he doesn't care and just ignores you then your better off without him in your life. Good luck
2006-08-15 06:23:47 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mam I we people take decisions so fast with out even knowing or judging the real picture ,may be your Bf is facing any mental stress due to his studies.career. or some thing related to you .Actually you girls always take it cool to break up the relations but mam today if you don't have any one in your life than plz plz stay with him for some more time and then decide.
2006-08-15 09:13:39 · answer #8 · answered by alok_bpo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a similar thing happen in a relationship come to find out he was acting like that cause he was cheating on me i guess he thought if we had sat down to talk like grownups i may have found out what the problem really was hope its not the same in ur case
2006-08-15 06:25:30 · answer #9 · answered by nybx28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You asked 3 questions but you also said you really want to break up.
Since you seem to already know what you want, then the answers to the questions you ask are actually pointless.
You answered your own question.
2006-08-15 06:25:04 · answer #10 · answered by spindoccc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋