2006-08-14 22:40:26 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well there is something wrong here for sure. I was married for a while and I know that sex can loose its thrill at times, but that is when you have to spice things up. Hell that's the fun part! Talk to him and find out what he would like to do to make things more interesting. If that doesn't work, call me and I will keep you satisfied until he comes around. That is my contribution to the cause.
2006-08-14 22:52:23 · answer #1 · answered by Brad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually it is much more commonthan U might think.People usually jump immediately to the assumption that there is something wrong with the man but that's a bad jump. There are so may factors and reasons that bring about a situation like that, that affect the lives of the couple outside their sexual relationship which most of the time is much more seriouse and threatening than the manifestation of sexual dysfunction you ask about. The male orgasm experienced at ejaculation is almost universally more intense when brought about other than vaginal thrusting, such as oral sex, which accounts for it's popularity, masturbation, same thing, anal sex because the anus is a tighter fit usually, and on and on, but our awkwardness as a people is very difficult to overcome so other aspects of our relationships suffer due to our inability to communicate that is spread from the sex bed to other important aspects of interpersonal behavior, crippling us more and more and causing a rift to open up and grow until we become reluctant to get into private circumstance and much of the time ending in divorce or sepration and we find ourselves ill prepared to deal with. If you are a wife hurt by the thought that you man prefer his hand to you or a husband, fearful that it may bring about the loss of the woman U love, don't make the mistake of thinking it's just sexual. Get help if you love your partner.
2006-08-15 03:26:47 · answer #2 · answered by jshalejhale 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not normal to be in a relationship and prefer to "go it alone" rather that enjoy the close touch and sexual experience with someone they are supposed to be in love with. It is not normal to not have sex with your wife at all. You need counseling to see why you prefer go it alone.
2006-08-15 00:46:06 · answer #3 · answered by RITA G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just can't take the love-making thing or
he may he was unfaithful and afraid that he has a sickness and don't want to transmit it to his wife or he is afraid that she had been unfaithful to him and he does not want to be take the chance of contracting any sickness via intercourse.
2006-08-14 22:48:11 · answer #4 · answered by awaxa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the man is good enoght for ot having another woman, and his wife seems to be so bad in sex.
2006-08-14 22:49:12 · answer #5 · answered by foniboki 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's better to pray for this man. God created man to enjoy sex in the right way
2006-08-14 22:45:36 · answer #6 · answered by Alito 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is haveing an affair, The wife needs to confront him about it.
Poor girl, if she is not getting it someone is!
2006-08-15 00:20:41 · answer #7 · answered by Lilac_lady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there.
and from the answers you have up most of them feels with man and thats real.
if you don't get what you want inside the house you will search for it outside , well its better to do that only.
2006-08-14 22:55:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is a loon,a psycho thats minutes away from admitting himself to the looney Bin.Thats really weird.
2006-08-14 22:44:37 · answer #9 · answered by Mrknowitall 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's gonna be so unfair to his wife. pls stop being selfish. work things out with the wife and get better sex satisfaction.
2006-08-14 22:54:35 · answer #10 · answered by #1 Girl -She's Bittersweet- 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋